i'm doing fine singly, but would really like someone in my life to make it great.

maybe something is lost when all the restraints are thrown away.i'm not talking about right and wrong. i'm asking what works best?people are lonly,and afraid. and will do anything to fill that lonliness--for a minute, an hour, a lifetime. sex is probably the very best wayto feel....how you say...not alone.
sometimes, there are other times when it can make things worse.
each stage in a relationshiphas a different level of communication. in the beginning, both lovers are cautious, and learn about eachother gradually. they sharememories, take eachother to favorite places, and slowly begine to touch. as they get more intimate, they communicate faster and more intensly.
sex is probably the ultimate, all the senses are ingaged at the same time; if you do it right.
two people eating dinner together can exchange virtually no information, and feel that there interaction was complete.
but sex is so intense that it seems it just has to mean something. it feels as if you just learned profound and complex things about your lover.
we lie to ourselfs about how well we know each other.
too often, we try desperatly to believethat this other person is the missing part of ourselves--even if only for a night.
maybe it isn't love, but...how about...friendship? caring? compassion?
when everyone knows what everyone else's body looks like. everyone talks about what everyone else is like in bed. there might be anticipation, but there isn't much mystery.
and you want that.
i thaught that i had everything that i wanted, both freedom and security. but it turns out that i want something else. i want someone that belongs to me.
is that selfish? is that petty?
no. it used to be what everybody wanted. then we talked ourselves out of it.maybe we're just rediscovering how much of that is in our basic natures. i've never been one to fight against my urges. neither should you.

i'm looking for a true lifelong trusting partner.way over the bar scene. looking for the fairy tale true love everlasting.
i work hard 5 days a week/ my daily commute is 132 miles and 3 hrs long on average and i still work out 4 times a week after work., so i like to relax on my days off. i'm pretty decent at one on one conversations but not so good around alot of people. i like to listen. i'm kind of a home person. a little on the shy side so unless i've been around a person for a while i'm kinda quiet. or maybe thats just caution. . when i'm in love , i can be a nymph. i don't enjoy the bar seen for reasons above. if you'd like to get to know me better please don't hesetate to introduce yourself. (like to build hotrods and would like to meet a woman with simular interests. i like to watch movies, and play games. i like to swim, ski, i enjoy the outdoors. and like to keep myself in shape so that whomever i may be with will continue to find me atractive for many years. i would like to meet a woman who will do the same for me. i'm working hard to change my life and am saving for both retirement and a house. i have supported many people before and am not looking to do so again. you kneed to be willing to split the bills. i am extremely mechanically inclined. my body is my tool not my words. i try to always speek the truth, so don't ask me something you don't want to hear the truth about. i'm tired of people saying they'll do something then failing to even try.
i'm looking for a woman with simular interests, i.e. fitness, mechanics, swimming, movies, sexual labido i need a woman who likes to cuddle, who will set a good example for our children if we ever have any. i would like to have some but i need to be able to trust you first,i don't need to have kids to be happy. i just like to play, where as most people just like to sit around and drink. i enjoy spending time with my niece and nephue very much. i want a woman who can keep a job and is dependable. i need someone who will pay there share of the bills. i would like to meet someone who actually enjoys relaxing on the couch watching movies on the weakends, swimming, hikes, jogs, nature watching. i don't want a woman who frequently attends the bars.or goes out and parties all the time. i would be rather amazed if i could find a woman who also enjoyed video agames.i'm into mostly rpg's. i am who i am and the completeness of this will hopefully help me meet the woman of my dreams. and god willing my soul mate.

if you have a problem with getting sweaty your probably not right for me.

and i don't really want to date a smoker. there mouths taste bad and the smoke gives me a scinus headache. sorry.


for true love there must be attraction.
keeping fit keeps one happier, healthier, and makes you live longer with more energy.the longer you live the more time you can spend with your lover, and soul mate.the happier and fuller , the indurance of your life will be together.
the more things you can do together.

and who wouldn't want their greatest moments with there loved one to last?

a walk in a park.