I am a nice looking{so I have being told }down to earth Gentlemen.I was born and raised in Germany and came to this country in 1988.I am a professional,well educated and hardworking person.I love life and laughter and treat others with respect and decency.I have a wide variety of intere hobby's.I am very open mindet and understanding.I do not tolerate headgames or lies.Honesty and open comunication is the key to success in a healthy relationship.I am verry active but enjoy quiet evening's as well.I have a wide varriaty of music,Rap, Hip Hop ( thanks to my girls )and Classic Rock is one of my favored.I am compfortable with Jeans as well as in a Tuxedo.Now I feel like I am appraising myself. If you are interessted,I will gladly tell you more about myself. I wish you a wonderfull day.


There is something I found today what realy is worth reading and to think about.
I hope the person who wrote and posted that don't mind me putting it on here.


Ladies I hate to break this to you but Prince Charming does not exist. Nor does a knight in shining armor. A good guy is a myth. The whole "soulmate" concept is a clever marketing idea used to guilt the guy into buying you stupid shit.
There is no perfect match for you. There is no one that is going to make you happy or complete you. You are not going to have a "You got mail" moment. Sleepless in Seattle? Yeah, that is bullsh*ttoo. If you still believe in these fantasies after age 12, you are an idiot.( I didn't say that )
So what does that leave? A guy that is average with nothing really special about him. He goes to work, he has friends. He has not travelled around the world and made millions. He did not get into Mensa and he could not care any less about summiting Mount Everest.
He has a life that has ups and downs. Some days he is depressed, other days he is happy to be alive. He has goals and dreams, many of which he will never accomplish and that is ok with him. He may even be a little over weight with a gym membership that he has never used. He could be shorter than average with a great personality or maybe he is six foot something but the closest he will ever get to a Calvin Klien poster is when his friends photo shop his face over one for his 40th birthday.

What am I trying to explain here? That you, ladies, need to step back into reality. Put down the romance novel, turn off the Chick Flick. Happily Ever After only happens if you are on a ton of anti-depressants and only lasts as long as you keep remembering to take your pill.
Relationships go up, they go down, they remain flat for long periods of time. It takes two to make it work and romance is a two way street. You want a guy to act a certain way? Act that way with him, he will get the hint. But above all remember the guy that you are with is perfect because you will know all of his imperfections that no one else will take the time to enjoy.

Most go for a cup of coffee or something to be able to have a quick getaway. I do not understand why.I just don't meet anybody, there needs to be some sort of comunication forehand to see if there are comon interessts and likes. So my first date would be a picknic at an nice shady and quiet park where you actualy be able to talk and get to know each other. Be yourself and be real.