Let me start off by saying that I am going to be brutally honest with you. I do not have abs of steel (I am 295lbs), I do not drive an expensive car or have an unlimited bank account. I don't own my own home or a company jet. I am a Dominant man by nature, and sometimes that comes off as arrogance. Words tend to come out of my mouth backwards and because of that, I am usually misunderstood and never given the chance to say what I really mean before offense is taken.

Now that I have gotten all my faults out of the way, let me tell you about the good qualities I have. The decision to read on is entirely up to you, but I think that if you do, you will be pleasantly surprised by what you'll find out about me.

I have a huge heart and always put the ones I love first and foremost in my life. I don't have a lot of friends, but the ones I do have, I treasure above all else. I have the utmost respect for all women. I am loyal, caring, compassionate, and a great listener. I like to joke around, hang out, and just experience life and all it has to offer. I am currently involved in a very strategical weight loss plan, and since Dec 2006 I have succeeded at losing over 100 pounds, and it just keeps coming off. I am what most women cuddled with as a child..a teddy bear, with a heart of gold.

What I am offering to the right woman is my total commitment to ensure her happiness.

Who is the right woman?
She is caring,thoughtful,loyal and trustworthy. Honesty is a big part of who I am, and I want someone who can always give it to me straight, even at the risk of hurting my feelings, because I will always be very honest with them.

I love to talk as much as I love to listen, I believe communication is a key factor in any successful relationship, so the right woman will love to talk as well as listen. I am not a shallow person, and I expect the same in return. Respect is a huge thing for me...you respect me, and I will respect you. I just want a compatible woman who I can spend some time, and share interests with. If it goes further, great, if not, let's make it fun while it lasts.

Musically I enjoy just about everything. I have very ecclectic tastes, but find I listen mostly to the classic rock genre.
My favorite television shows include Desperate Housewives,CSI New York and CSI Vegas, House and 2-1/2 men.
My favorite movies are usually anything with Bruce Willis, John Wayne, Marilyn Monroe or Jennifer Aniston in them. I also love fantasy movies and pretty much anything with sword play in it.
As far as sports are concerned, I root for the home teams. Go Flames and Stamps!
My hobbies include; PHotography,chatting, meeting new people, building computers, walking, flirting, dining out, and movies.
Some of my favorite authors include Stephen King and Douglas Adams.

TWENTY-EIGHT THINGS ABOUT ME
01. I am a Dominant man.
02. I want to meet like minded friends eager to learn as I learn.
03. I an A network Technician by trade and indulge my friends with my deskside skills.
04. I'm Pagan
05. I'm a bit of a history buff
06. I'm a rocker that is especially fond of 70's and 80's rock.
07. I love to give a woman pleasure using my body.
08. I'm a download junkie.
09. I have the sexiest blue bedroom eyes any woman could wish for.
10. I love all women in all shapes and sizes.
11. I'm an American living in Canada.
12. I hate judgmental and superficial beings.
13. I love a good debate.
14. I love watching a great cult classic.
15. I hate long walks, just give me a good pool to swim in (or float).
16. I have lots of jewelery and each piece is special for it's own reasons.
17. I love eating ****.
18. I have one tattoo...for now, and one piercing.
19. I actually want to talk to the friends I make online.
20. I have 3 daughters and a son who do not live with me.
21. I write poetry and erotica.
22. I love sex...the nastier the better!
23. I shave my head every day.
24. I like all my friends to be themselves...(crazy, sexy, naughty, nasty, wild, fun & free)!
25. I am brutally honest and very open...If you can't handle the answer then don't ask the question.
26. I could care less about ratings, fans or points.
27. I don't "fan" people or add people to my "family" unless we have talked and built a relationship.
28. And last but not least...despite my bad boy appearance, I am a nice, intelligent and giving gentleman who would rather talk to someone than fight them.


If you like how my profile reads,and are interested, then message me. I promise I won't bite(this time). I am not superficial and I will respond to everyone who contacts me take a chance, get to know me one on one.

The first date is always the most nerve racking and awkward experience for both parties. It wouldn't matter what we did, as long as I did my best to make sure that the environment felt welcoming and warm to be in, and that can easily be accomplished just by listening to the other person and finding out how they feel about certain situations in advance. I always like to start off any new relationship by having some one on one time via instant messaging like Yahoo or MSN, or talking on the telephone. This gives the opportunity to find out a little more about each other from the comfort of our own homes.