I have been off this site for awhile because i thought i had no reason to look further but since life doesn't always happen the way we want it to.. i am back and hope to find a special friend along the way.. i still like Alabama football but more than that i like to watch Auburn lose. i watch nascar every sunday that the sun is not shining and i can go to the river with friends or alone.. mother of 3 boys ages 22,14, & 13. Picture above is of me and my oldest son after a friendly mud volleyball game last august! I have been divorced and on my own for 14 years.. so pretty set in my ways and very independent, but need a friend to share those special times with...just a couple of things about me...
1. I hate cheese
2. never use an umbrella when it rains
3. had rather have a bologna sandwich than a steak
4. hate seafood
5. stand up for what i believe in
6. will let you think you are right
7. have 5 tattoos(which can be hiden)
8. have my friend's back NO MATTER WHAT
9. will volunteer to be the DD everytime if need to
10. Not much i won't try once (except cheese & seafood)
11. live for a challenge

sitting in the park or by the water and talk to get to know each other better..
After reading most "first dates" in guys profiles .. they mostly say candle light dinners and roses.. Well let me fore warn you, i am not a candle light and roses kinda girl.. don't try to impress me and if it is just the way you are that is fine.. but i see it as a waste of money. want to impress me or make a first date unforgettable... take me on a motorcycle ride or boat ride or just down to the lake and let me hear merle haggard or waylon in the back ground.. a coors light if we are drinking and grape milkshake if we aren't.. daisies to me are the most beautiful flower. memories don't have to cost a weeks pay check or anything for that matter.. but if you have to buy that first date so to speck... is it really worth it? have never seen a friend that i had to buy been worth the effort and they are not my true friends... so just talking and getting to know each other is always a best first date but get to know each other first before you take around your friends and find out what they like and their personality.