Do you look for a friend first and see if it will grow into more or look for long term and end up as friends,either way the result is good so what do you say your looking for ???.Well I'm an easy going happy father of 4 great children 9 to 15 (B,G,G,G.)Getting fit, healthy and enjoying life or as close as I can get. I don't care about the past (can't change it)so I now look forward to the future.I'm not looking for a mother for my children but someone for me to get to know and talk to build a friendship and hopefully more. I moved here Nov. 2006 to create a new beginning for me and my children and I have met a few great people.Now I'm looking for someone special to talk to and then see what happens from there. Family is important to me and I like people also that way. I would like to be around positive, happy, caring, open minded people. "Be proud of your achievements and forget your problems or failures". Don't put pressure on yourself in this dating game ,just smile it will happen. Life is short so live to the fullest because the worst that could happen is you meet someone not suited to you. The rest is a positive I think. I think you can't choose a partner or friend on how close they live to you. When you do you miss out on meeting or talking to some really great people."Thanks for reading my profile and I hope you find what you are looking for in life." PS " SMILE " *** "away for a while with family health issues which should be sorted soon"***

Depends on the person but usually something that would be relaxing for both people. To keep the meeting and people as natural as possible but you pick that up when you talk to each other.