If you're married, don't IM me and if you're under 35...same thing. If you're IM'ing with the intention of talking me slowly into a dirty online get off session, go into someone elses computer, cuz I'm saving myself for some real time with a real man that ends up mine. Flat out, I'm looking for someone that's in the Biker lifestyle, if you're not you probably won't want to read this because we really won't have much in common. If you've ever considered gettin one and want to see what's out here go ahead and read. For those of you that are, I hope you're kicked back with a cold one and ready to read.Theres a bit of a long story associated with how I got into the lifestyle but we'll save that for a later date. Anyways they call me Red and I'm a born and bred Michigander. I love to have fun, be poked at just as much as pokin at others among friends and good company. I love humor, love joking around and mild sarcasm. I'm here to find friends, people to ride with and a relationship if one presents itself down the road. I'm done jumping into something headfirst. I love events and can pay my own way. I think two people that are together can go, have fun, get beaded and not have any issues about it between them. I'm not looking for a free ride, I know what the 3 most important rules are and IF I have to explain them you're not a biker...lol.

I don't want to jump right into a relationship with someone, I want to get to know someone and they me. I want to know if they will walk through the ides of hell to save someone they love, I want someone to know that I can not only stand behind them and will when necessary to have their back but also proudly next to them. I want to know that when my heart is on my sleeve, that it doesn't need to be knocked off to fall to the ground and stomped on some more, but that it needs to be gently taken and have life breathed back into it, then be put back inside of me. When it comes to intimacy, I'm not sure that I'm quite ready, but then again I may be and just dont know it. Don't get me wrong, I'm not totally opposed... I love luvin' but I want a real connection this time.

I have a bike but it's not running right now. It's an 81 650 Yam that's itchin for a rebuild. For now, I'd be more than willing to climb on the back of someone elses, help out along the way and treat you to dinner or something just for takin me. Even if I rode my own, I'd still want to ride behind a man..there's no better feeling...hmmm ok there is but this runs a close second. My title states that in life there's two things: riding and therapy. Therapy is expensive, confining and boring. Come on, you know you've seen a dog, head hangin out the window, ears and jowls flappin in the breeze-makes 'em look like they're smiling. WELL THEY ARE!!! They know its a dog eat dog world and at that moment they're in doggie heaven and theirs nowhere else they'd rather be. Well that's the way I feel about riding, it's the best therapy there is. There's a true freedom on the road and it CANNOT be explained.

A person that loves nature, I can wander around with my camera just taking in everything it has to offer. One of my favorite things is getting away from it all, riding behind an awesome guy and shooting pics as well. I can get lost at home detailing a bike, don't know why I just kinda drift away somewhere. Same with learning PSP. Speaking of learning I love to learn things that I'm interested in like photography, woodworking, wrenchin, hunting, classic cars, antiques, old buildings and structures and others, finding the right instructor is the hard part. I like playing pool, reading, going out on the firing range, horses, Nascar, bars are ok on runs and now and then as a couple but I rarely drink and don't go by myself. There's more to me than meets the eye. I served my country, not in wartime but was still ready to go and would stand next to my neighbor and take up arms if I had to.

I have a beautiful 23 year old daughter and two equally beautiful grand daughters, one is 4 years and the other is over 1 year old. My parents and my kids come first, a relationship ranks within that group but, if something comes down, I'd have to head for the family. Everything else third. I thank God every day for my family. Other things I thank Him for are: my health, Our Troops (past, present and future), our Emergency Services workers who put their lives on the line every day for us, and every day that He gives to me. I love the freedom that our young men and women are off protecting and my hat and prayers go off to them.

I Love Music. Country is my first and foremost but running a close second is older rock and roll I also can't forget motown and blues. What can I say...I'm a 60's baby...50's all the way on up. After that, I don't care what genre it is really, if I like it I listen to it...if I don't I channel surf (anyone seen the remote)? I like quite a few tv shows, anything medical, cop, forensic, Discovery CHannel, some reality shows. I like some of the daytime soaps. I usually record shows, but hey if I miss em, I miss em. Id rather be out riding than watching tv.

This is the hard part but I believe in honesty so here goes. The last thing that really needs to be said is, in the computer world there are always risks. There is a platform in computing called WYSIWYG and I believe in that in my life. For now some call me a bbw some call me strong and husky. I HAD some medical issues a while back but are for the most part over there. My beauty lies in my personality, it lies within and it also lies in the eyes of the beholder. If any of this has intrigued you up to that latter point and now you don't like it, have fun when you find a mechanical b*t**y bimbo that doesn't know how to treat a good man and wonder when she cheats on ya.

I have a few pet peeves. I don't do fake. I don't do misconceptions. I don't do assumptions. I get forced into the latter sometimes when people don't mean what they say or say what they mean or sometimes even if'n ya ask "pretty please with me on top",... lol and I still don't get a straight answer (sometimes not one at all). As someone who can own up to mistakes, I don't mind being wrong but I hate it when I'm forced into it through assumptions and misconceptions. In other words...whatever the relationship is keep it real or keep it going. In my life I'm a firm believer in whatever works. If something works, I try to keep it going, if it doesn't I'll find a way to improve on it, if it still doesn't work then most likely it's just NOT my fault. Don't get me wrong, I can own up to my mistakes, CAN YOU?

Sorry this was so long, but I thought I'd lay the cards on the table.

Im not gonna do anything lengthy here. Hopefully you read my description and came out still breathing. Maybe, I'm just interesting enough for you to contact, which also means we may have something in common. Just maybe I'd be considered a good enough person to take to events as a side-kick so to speak and have fun with and see what happens. So...First date? Hmmmmm if the words "Lookin for adventure and whatever comes our way" mean anything to you...then I don't have to explain....... Let's roll.