Big and Beautiful Puerto Rican woman looking for someone who can appreciate me for me. I am an open-minded person who loves to laugh,(mostly at my friends,LOL) I enjoy a good conversation, actually I love a person i can carry long conversations with. I am considered a pretty funny person. I am looking for some one who i can bond with, be best friends with, fall in love with, and just simply connect with. I'm tired of guys who are only looking for a PIECE, I'm so much more than that. I'm tired of "settling" for people. I'm looking for genuine people. I'm not saying "hey you, with the face, get over here lets get married" but I am looking for someone who i can get to know, be able to watch a scary movie curled up on the couch with, someone manly enough to hold a door open for me, someone who will kiss my hand and make my heart flutter, a guy who makes me feel special to him. I am so tired of all the games. Tired of guys who want a "free ride" so to speak. I'm not saying I want a commited long term relationship right off the back but someone willing to try to get to that point. Somedays I get to a point where I start thinking chivalry is dead. Does anyone believe in romance anymore? Does anyone bring their girl a cheesy gift for no reason anymore? What happened to comfortable silences curled up on the couch, or long afternoons talking eachothers ears off? Where's the guy that can say "you're beautiful" and not "you're hot"? If youre out there, drop me a line..

I dont know what else to say, hmmm lets see, . i love going out with my friends. We sometimes end up at the bar worshiping eachother for being the masters of the Long Island, or just shooting pool and making fun of how crappy we play. I just want to have fun and see where it goes,..

Lets see, what else...
Currently, I go to school almost full time to finish all my undergraduate requirements so I can eventually go into pharmacy school. I'm looking for a good book to read. Actively searching for the winning lottery numbers.. I might win if I'd ever play... Looking for the best way to become a better smart ass.. LOL yeah I get a lil snarky..I'm a good cook and a great listener. I tend to talk alot once you get me going.. I just need a topic lol

I just moved down to Florida recently. I have plenty of family and friends down there and even though Illinois has always been my home, I feel like it's time to move on to bigger and better adventures in life.

"Like a strong wind ready to change direction..."


My Fav books, movies, music, foods, etc:
There are so many things to list, and I forgot to take my ADD meds..LMAO just kidding. Tho it does seem like I can never remember the name to that one movie with the actor with the face... it was great.. LOL

Id have to say one of my top 5 movies has to be Fight Club...

Sublime is my band.. totally... I listen to just about anything tho.. ranging from 90's alternative (luv it!) to todays alternative scene.. to reggae to metal to raver to top 40... i listen to most music.. except crappy elevator renditions of good songs...

I love to cook for my guy, and can make a variety of dishes... I am currently on an Indian food kick... that and making spicy stir frys.. any requests my guy makes for a meal will be taken seriously because I always enjoy the challenge and will learn anything I don't already know. Beware tho, I may make you buy all the ingrediants and that special pan to make it in if its complex! But it will be worth it.

I love to read.. period. give me a suggestion, ill probably read it as long as it falls into these simple criteria guidelines: you have to like either the book or author for me to take advice from you. i dont really like non-fiction. im not into romance novels. it cant have given you nightmares lol, ok thats not true id def still read that :) Ive read anything from King to Patterson to VCAndrews to Terry Brooks to Tolkien to Dan Brown to Chuck Palnihuk (i dont think i spelled that right) to geesh i dont even know anymore.. Ive been known to read upwards of 30-40 books a year... and still have time for school and a life...

My Typical Friday:
depends.. id like to go to a nice pub sometimes with a friend and people watch and laugh and have a good time.. maybe go shoot some pool or sing some karaoke... maybe plan a hot date with YOU! lol

i tend to go into "friday mode" and completely revolt against my house. even if i dont go out, ill go for a walk or something or treat myself to some chinese or something... seriously i hate being home on friday nights unless i got something going on the next morning.. but heres the kicker.. if i was in a relationship, i have no prob chilling over at his place and relaxing with a movie or just watching tv,.. well as long as it wasnt every single friday that is... gotta spice it up at least once in a while... i just really think that my apt has hot dates with the studio next door and needs some alone time... lol

You should message me IF YOU:
~dont smell bad
~aren't stupid
~like a laid back girl who can roll with the punches
~want to have fun conversations
~are interesting
~want to know a genuine girl with a sarcastic sense of humor

i dont really know what "theme" would make a perfect first date. but i'll tell you this much,..good conversation,...make me laugh,....stimulate me intellectualy,...that'll lead to a second date!