hello, let's see... lets start by saying that if you are wishy washy about being in a relationship or unsure you are ready to find someone please dont waste your time or mine. i have had my hard times and im ready for my good times. im looking for someone who loves to laugh, have fun, and even come out and watch the ole boy play some guitar now and again. she should also be driven and interested in the nuts and bolts of my interests as i will try to interest myself in what she is passionate about. (i hate guitar hero).i have full custody of my 11 year old daughter who i love more than my own life and i will not put anything before her happiness. she is amazing, smart, and deserves only the best company as i do too. (is that a rabbit over there?)we are a package deal and i will not date a woman exclusively if she does not like her and accept her. i do play music as indicated in the pictures above with a very well known local band. it's pretty interesting and at times very time consuming. its a weekends only deal and i do play alot of weekends. (quick note) music is my outlet and a way for me to keep myself creative and relaxed. i dont want to be a rock star or any of that mess.(i like chinese food) i work full time and live a normal life but i just have to do the music thing to keep me centered. also, dont let the long hair fool ya, i am not the typical long haired looser. i do not use drugs, nor will i accept a relationship with anyone who does. with all that being said if you would like to get to know me or just wanna say "what the hell's wrong with your brain"... (haha) please feel free. if you would like to chat my yahoo messenger i.d. is fucusguy. i have my*space. all ya have to do is ask me and i'll give ya the u.r.l. i am not sub, i am not dom, if u want a man to push u around or for u to push around move along, nothing to see here. i want a PARTNER! a best friend who happens to have romantic intentions. i am not jealous and the way my life is i wont accept a jealous type. like my dad said, "find someone you wanna spend the rest of your life with and treat her well enough to make it happen". im at a point in my life where thats exactly what i wish for. i wanna fall by accident and love hard. any takers?

ok formal dates SUCK ASS! i dont wanna go to dinner and a movie where all u do is fill your mouth so u cant talk and then go somewhere where you have to be quiet. im sorry, that's LAME! first dates should be spent doing something fun, cheesy, and un awkward. take for instance, shopping. wal mart is fun because you can act like idiots and they just dont care. another fun time is shootin pool or throwing back a few at the local bar or pub. why be uncomfortable when you are in fact trying to find your new best friend and companion. thats why we are all doing this. (well the sane ones anyhow). lets have a blast and see how many people we can get funny looks from!