I dont have much to say here, because I can say anything , I believe you have to get past certain physical qualifications, logisitcal qualifications and moral qualifications then you need to actually spnd time with someone to really understand who they are. At this age we have all been through a lot and our basic outlook on the world is pretty much formed through our experiences. I am not saying that one can't change, but what I am saying is that we are all more cautious and precise on what aand who we want. I think we all realize that we are not here forever and opportunities to get this right are decreasing daily. I hope this doesnt sound pessimistic, because that is not the intention, I am actually happy with my life, I just want to enhance it with the right person. In general I am a very simple person. I dont have a lot of needs and wants. With the right person I think anything we would do would be wonderful, from a trip to a beautiful place, to a movie, to a show, to dinner, to laying in bed reading a book together. As long as you have that warm and secure feeling that you are in it together, thru think and thin.