About me:
Introverted (not be confused with antisocial or shy), cerebral (IQ 140), analytical, logical, an iNtuitive thinker, solitary, cynical (but not gratuitously), sarcastic and wry sense of humor, independent, virtually secular, a minimalist, nonconformist/free thinker, conservative/tradtional, autonomous, lascivious, dependable, punctual, frugal, creative and imaginative, cool and unflappable, unpretentious, good listener, giver type lover, confident, articulate/ good communicator, dutiful, fiercely loyal, curious/insatiable thirst for knowledge, very organized, patient, tolerant, a conflict resolver, affable, very passionate, romantic, generous, fun-loving, profound/deep thinker

Who I'd like to meet:
A woman who can be brutally honest with herself as well as me, A woman with a sense of humor. I value a sense of humor in a person so much that I would rather spend my time in the company of a woman who isnt that great looking but who keeps the laughs coming as if they were bullets from a machine gun. No one's company is more insufferable than a person who is dry and takes themselves so seriously that they cannot take being made fun of or recognize good humor in others. I also enjoy a woman who can stand back and laugh at herself when life throws her a curve ball, a woman who can still manage to find to a sliver of humor in all the chaos of this thing we call life. The bottom line is, I dont care what your style of humor is just show me you have one. A woman who is independent in every sense of the word (financially, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually). A woman who is sexually uninhibited, mature and experienced as a potential sexual partner (basically a nasty cum freak). A woman who has a definitive concept of right and wrong (and adheres to it) and not some ambiguous or relative moral code that vacillates depending on the situation. Botton line, I have no room in my life for moral relativists, those who deny or reject the moral absolutes commanded by God. A woman who is tolerant and can accept a man as he is despite his flaws, without any designs on trying to change him ( ladies, contrary to all the current and fashionable TV makeover shows we men are NOT molding clay). A woman who is affectionate, emotionally generous and emotionally available. A woman who is considerate of others and has tact, a woman who can conduct herself like a lady when out in public and not be an embarrassment to herself or me. A woman who isnt obsessed with money, status or material things, but one who is simply looking for someone to share a part of their life with. And finally a woman with no self-destructive vices, that means a woman who leads a clean life bereft of heavy alcohol consumption (social drinking is OK), cigarettes, and esp. illicit drugs.

I'm rather tradtional when first meeting someone so I just like dinner and a movie or perhaps putt-putt golf or bowling if she wishes for something more "active." In the summer perhaps a pinic or BBQ in a park followed by a nice walk if she's more the outdoors type woman. But all in all I feel first dates should be about an environment that fosters conversation enabling one to get a feel for someone face-to-face.