The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing. - Socrates

These are words that describe my personality best:
Introverted (not be confused with antisocial or shy), cerebral (IQ 140), analytical, logical, an iNtuitive thinker, solitary, optimistic (but not Pollyannaish), sarcastic and wry sense of humor, independent, a minimalist, nonconformist/free thinker, conservative/traditional, autonomous, lascivious, dependable, punctual, frugal, creative and imaginative, cool and unflappable, unpretentious, good listener, giver type lover, confident, articulate/ good communicator, dutiful, fiercely loyal, curious/insatiable thirst for knowledge, very organized, patient, tolerant, a conflict resolver, affable, very passionate, romantic, generous, fun-loving, profound/deep thinker


I have no qualms about being chivalrous toward women who comport themselves like ladies, for those women, I am very much an old school gentleman. I find myself most attracted to women who care about the way they look and dress, women who revel in their femininity with their own sense of personal style.

I’m looking to get married again and hopefully have children (and yes, exactly in that order) I have absolutely no interest in becoming some wayward woman’s illegitimate father or baby‘s daddy as they call it these days.


Who I'd like to meet:
A woman who can be brutally honest with herself as well as me. A woman who is able to accept constructive criticism, and even admit to being wrong sometimes.

A woman with a sense of humor. I value a sense of humor in a person so much that I would rather spend my time in the company of a woman who isn’t that great looking but who keeps the laughs coming as if they were bullets from a machine gun. No one's company is more insufferable than a person who is dry and takes themselves so seriously that they cannot take being made fun of or recognize good humor in others. I also enjoy a woman who can stand back and laugh at herself when life throws her a curve ball, a woman who can still manage to find to a sliver of humor in all the chaos of this thing we call life. The bottom line is, I don’t care what your style of humor is just show me you have one.

A woman who is independent in every sense of the word (financially, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually).

A woman who is sexually uninhibited, mature and experienced as a potential sexual partner (basically a nasty cum freak - within the confines of a marriage or monogamous relationship of course). Why is this important? Because having and or enjoying a robust sex life inside a committed relationship is very important to me. For those women who are squeamish about doing what it takes to satisfy her man, it’s best you flee from this profile.


A woman who has a definitive concept of right and wrong (and who makes an earnest attempt to adhere to it) and not some ambiguous or relative moral code that vacillates depending on the situation. This doesn’t mean I am seeking perfection, I understand no one is perfect, not even me. But I must have a partner who is honest and strong enough to do the right thing. Bottom line, I have no room in my life for moral relativists, those who deny or reject the moral absolutes commanded by God.

A woman who is old fashioned in demeanor and possesses traditional/conservative values, a.k.a. Judeo-Christian morals. Why is this important? Because our culture is now awash in moral relativism, my future wife and I will absolutely not raise or churn out another moral idiot into society.

A woman who is tolerant and can accept a man as he is despite his flaws, without any designs on trying to change him ( ladies, contrary to all the current and fashionable TV makeover shows we men are NOT molding clay).

A woman who is affectionate, emotionally generous and emotionally available.

A woman who is considerate of others and has tact, a woman who can conduct herself like a lady when out in public and not be an embarrassment to herself or me.

A woman who isn’t obsessed with money, status or material things, but one who is simply looking for someone to share a part of their life with.

And finally a woman with no self-destructive vices, that means a woman who leads a clean life bereft of heavy alcohol consumption (social drinking is OK), cigarettes, and esp. illicit drugs.

Last book read:"Under God: George Washington and the Question of Church and State" - Tara Ross & Joseph C. Smith Jr.

Currently reading:"States Rights and the Union" Imperium in Imperio 1776-1876" - Forrest McDonald

Next book on reading list:"Liberty and Tyranny: A Conservative Manifesto" - Mark R. Levin

I'm rather traditional when first meeting someone so I just like dinner and a movie or perhaps putt-putt golf or bowling if she wishes for something more "active." In the summer perhaps a picnic or BBQ in a park followed by a nice walk if she's more the outdoors type woman. But all in all I feel first dates should be about an environment that fosters conversation enabling one to get a feel for someone face-to-face.