A partner in life is more than a lover. They are first and foremost "Best Friends." I seek the "best friend" relationship and see where it leads.

Don't walk ahead of me, I may not always follow. Don't walk behind me, I may not always lead. Walk beside me as my best friend.

I enjoy quiet evenings at home, taking walks, drinking coffee at the outside cafe. Walking thru a shopping mall, just looking, enjoying the moment of time and leave without buying anything. I don't need to be wined and dined to be happy. The importance is the company I'm with, not the food I'm eating. I enjoy reading and am very computer literate.

I dislike someone trying to "impress" me. The quiet touch of the hand, the unexpected hug, the smile and twinkle of the eyes are so important. A true relationship is based upon the heart, not the wallet.

All of lifes basic needs are met. What's missing is the companion, partner and hand to hold. The special someone to share life with.

My personality traits are: adventurous, clean cut, easygoing, flexible, musical, nurturing, practical, romantic, sensitive, simple, spiritual, spontaneous, out going, fun loving, independent, educated, intelligent, computer savvy, Webmaster, a people person, family oriented, professional with a good sense of humor, and enjoy home life. I enjoy weekend trips, reading, garage sales, fleamarkets, antique shops, watching videos, fishing, home projects and flower gardening.

The idea of making all the necessary changes for a permanent relationship at our age is frightening! Relationships don't just happen on the spur of the moment in our lives today, like we so quickly did when we were 20. Today we give it much more thought.

The twilight years ahead of me are important. I don't want to make a serious mistake at this point in my life that I can't recover from. Probably most of the middle age dating scene feels the same way.

I am not a serial dater. I have no interest in quick sex and many short relationships. From my experience I have been pushed away from wanting to meet someone, due to the email or IM messages where the primary subject was SEX. How often do I want it? What position do I like? etc. Excuse me, I'm a complete stranger. It is none of your business. If you are that hard-up call an 800 number! Sex in a relationship is the icing on the cake.

What I am looking for is someone I want to spend the rest of my aging years with. The one who realizes our bodies have aged thru years of travel and lifes battles. Yet, inside is the beauty of our hearts and minds. Someone who wants to grow old together. Knowing our bodies will seriously fall apart and don't care. We have bonded with our hearts. Sitting next to each other and being content that our love is so deep, we make love to each other, even with our eyes.

It is a reality I work with every day. I am a nurse. I work with the elderly, geriatric population. Growing old gracefully is an art. I admire those couples who have lived together 50-60 years and make love to each other with their eyes, just by looking at each other across the room. Have you ever seen that look?

I am a caregiver for centurians! Yes, I have several who are over 100 years old with very alert minds! The history they share with me is awesome. I so admire them for all they have lived thru. Civil war, WW I and WWII, the Depression ..... No telephone, No mail, No washing machines, NO pizza. Gawd forbid, NO cell phones. Covered wagons and dusty trails. That life takes serious love to hold you together. If it wasn't for them, we would not be here. I want to be as happy with my man, when I'm that old, as they are.

Your not Humphrey Bogart? Well, I'm not Gretta Garbo! From the youngins.....those I work with between 20-30 years old, they don't believe how old I am. They say I'm younger, but perhaps it's flattery. Yet I don't think so. I think they mean it. I believe it is due to my spirit, attitude and love they see inside me.

Smoking is something a person doesn't want to give up. They do it because they want to. That sums it up for a smoker. Nothing is going to change it unless they want it for themselves.

I can say that and mean it. I smoked for 40 years because I wanted to. I stopped 3 years ago. It was a difficult decision to make because I'm so stubborn. I mentally fought with the decision. Literally.. I looked at a cig in my hand and argued with it!! I wouldn't play Russian Roulette with a gun to my head, then why can't I stop smoking? How can something have so much control over me? The decision was made, I put the cig down. I'm the winner!!!

The point is, I don't smoke, but I would not nag you because you do. I understand where you are. I have lived it. But I love my new life without it. I won't smoke again. I didn't realize how much bondage I lived with being tied to it.. enough said.

Conversation is the heart of a relationship. Conversation, intelligence, common sense are really what will hold together a relationship in the twilight years. Geesh, please believe it isn't our sexy bodies!

This is what I seek. If found I'm willing to compromise, give in, give up and love him without limit.

If I haven't bored you completely, I would like to share more about myself. I am NOT trying to sell you anything......... some have been stupid enough to think that was the intent. I'm trying to show you what is in my heart..........I am an internet webmaster.

I am Peach. AKA MsPeach of PeachPatch.com I own http://peachpatch.com

I am the creator, editor, author, designer, publisher and graphic artist. My heart and soul are on display on that website. Please take a look and see if I am the person you are looking for, or atleast would give the opportunity to meet and see what happens from there.

On these pages are some of the expressions of my heart which are written BY me ABOUT me .......


http://peachpatch.com/members/cards/request.html
http://peachpatch.com/members/cards/somewhere.html
http://peachpatch.com/personal.html
http://peachpatch.com/letter.html
http://peachpatch.com/members/cards/forget.html

The entire website is my heart on display for the public. Many of my customers tell me "Your gutsy to open yourself so completely".

Please take the time to "look me over" and hopefully you want to reply........

A meeting for coffee or dinner. Conversation is important and should flow naturally. Sharing lifes adventures and interests.

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