*** NEW OUTLOOK UPDATE**** Perhaps reverse psychology will work.. Looking for a paranoid, self-centered, obnoxious, overweight, lying, cheating, douche bag.

If you have a wife, girlfriend, or both.... not interested..

RUTRO! Testing 1, 2.. Is this thing on? Okay, I am a 5'2, 38 year-old, brown eyed, long brown haired, down to earth, open & honest, loyal, low maintenance, 100% all NATURAL (I won't melt/burst if I stand next to a heater) chick with a HUGE loving and nurturing heart. I am not a workoutaholic BUT I try to keep myself enticing for my partner and looking for the same. I admire people that are confident, NOT arrogant, there's a huge difference. I MUST have a man of honesty, honesty, honesty, and integrity. Did I mention HONESTY? A man can have an abundance of admirable qualities, but without honesty and integrity, he's no man at all. On the lighter side, a plus for a man is if he's mechanically competent and can spell mechanically competent. A man with some junk in the trunk (nice hiney) is a plus too! A minus would be having a car that sounds like a lawn mower (just kidding, okay no, I am not!) I enjoy horseback riding, fishing, (no, I don't get wigged out by touching worms), and shooting pool. Actually, I really enjoy doing anything. I take great pride in making sure my man is well taken care of. I believe that even if I can't physically be with someone, just knowing that I am in their heart and/or on their mind, is a commitment in and of itself. I am the type of girl that is your buddy during the day yet still really girlie to be romantic with as well. But no, I won't fish or shoot pool in my thigh highs. Well, maybe if you ask nicely:?). I do the chick thing well and I totally appreciate a man that can do the guy thing well. For example, I'll be more than happy to cook (I make a mean PB & J sammich, j/k I can cook), while you are changing my oil. Look out though, cause I am pretty handy with a drill and left-handed screwdriver! If you haven't noticed by now, I have a pretty good/demented sense of humor, or at least I think so, so if I've said anything that offended you, you might want to pull your panties out of your hiney and click away because you are probably a little too uptight for me. With all of that said, I am a woman of values and morals and I don't/won't date someone merely because I have nothing better to do on a Friday night.

A HUGE THANK U to all of the men & women in the military for keeping me safe. Much respect and admiration goes out to you..

CIAO for now!
~Pamela~

Addendum(s):
I am an assertive and self-sufficient woman, I do not NEED a man in my life, but when I am ready and find ONE that I WANT in my life, it's innate for me to be kind, thoughtful, and nurturing. Please do not misinterpret my KINDNESS for WEAKNESS.

My goal, with regards to a relationship, when I am ready to take that step again, is to find a man that realizes his grass couldn't get any greener even if he had a lifetime warranty with Chemlawn. A bonus would be if he realized that PRIOR to walking away.

I apologize in advance if this sounds abrasive; however, I am not a big fan of head games or playing "the game". I say what I mean and mean what I say.

Searching for depth in a shallow sea.

First dates, to me, should be low key and relaxing. A chance to get to know someone in a casual atmosphere. I am a kid at heart and love doing fun things..shooting pool, carnival, putt putt, that's me! Dinner and a movie, BLAH! :)JUST KIDDING. I don't care what I do really as long as I enjoy the company.