LOOKING FORWARD TO A NEW YEAR AND A NEW BEGINNING IN 2008
I hope you all find what you are looking for.

For those who may have an interest....PLEASE be honest. I am not into mind or heart games someone always gets hurt. Also...PLEASE DON'T TAKE IT PERSONALLY IF I DON'T REPLY...it means that I am very busy or that I do not see/feel a connection....

About me..yikes, this is going to be hard...I have a very hard time describing myself, I'm healthy, not into the bar scene although I enjoy pub food, not into one night stands, and would love to share my life with "THAT" someone. I can be quite shy at times, I'm pretty comfortable with what I have to look at everyday, so I will write what I've been told by others. Sooooo here goes....been told I'm easy on the eyes, called beautiful, even very f---ing hot, sexy and impressive. I don't look my age, and that my pictures don't do me justice. Like I said, it's all in the eyes of the one doing the looking. We all have our own ideas on what beauty is. So that is for you to decide. I'm not in too bad shape for someone who doesn't try too hard. And since there is no such thing as perfect, I guess "WE" all have room for improvement. RIGHT!

I am very loyal to my friends and try to be totally honest without being hurtful and I expect the same in return. I need and want honesty, trust and respect in my life,(the trust part "HAS" to be earned....not expected). I am one of those friends that you call in the wee hours for a ride or to talk. Am also the one that if there is trouble, I am there to bail you out or standing right beside you...you no, partners in crime. I also am not into head games, playing with peoples hearts or sharing my partner. Please say what you mean and mean what you say.

I love to dance(slow is VERY nice), listen to all types of music, go for walks, going out for dinner(from lobster to A&W and there is a lot in between) or stay home and make it together, watch movies cuddling on the couch or on the floor sharing popcorn, talk, go camping(prefer not in a tent but will, seems to always rain) sit by a fire,love to cuddle and be close. Or even just stay in bed all day....because we can. To have that wonderful warm feeling one gets with that knowing look from across the room. Public displays of affection are great...as long as we don't get thrown in jail for it. Holding hands while walking down the street or on the beach. Just feeling that closeness with the slightest touch.

I have selected "friends" because that is where it all starts. I do what to find that somebody,with whom we become best friends, lovers and maybe even soul mates. Where we don't even have to say anything and we know each others thoughts. Feel excitement when you know the other is coming home. That when we are together, the 2 of us make 1. You know.....to just BE.

We all have an idea of what we are looking for in our lives...even on this site. We are also VERY visual. That is where everything starts...that draw that pulls us and makes us want to carry on and at least take a second look or on here, read what one has to say. As long as we are up front and honest with each other...we just might be lucky enough to find what we are looking for...first friendship, then dating and if we're lucky....LOVE... None of this means we have to give up "ourselves", it just means we have someone to share with....Isn't that what we all want in our lives? And to be able to just be ourselves, not be something we are not. I "NO" that I am far from perfect. I do and will make mistakes, I would hope that you can admit to that too. And the best part...to get off this site once and for all..

That first "date", meeting thing. Once the nerves calmed down...who knows. With any luck...then an actual date and go from there.

Male
Age between 47 and 58
Live in Canada
Live within 75 miles.
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not be married