I have an upbeat personality and try to see the good in everything. Life is way too short to be sad. I am an eternal optimist, an incurable romantic and am honest to a fault. I enjoy anything to do with the ocean, most sports, cheap wine (LOL) and fine dining, nature, reading, doing jigsaw or crossword puzzles and love spending time in beautiful Cape May. I work as an Accountant for a ladies clothing retailer in their home office, but am not your typical Accountant. (LOL) I try to live each day to its fullest, as nobody promises you there will be a tomorrow. I have old fashioned values on how you treat people and especially the woman you are with. I am definitely a "one woman man."

A good sense of humor is a must and I love women with big sexy eyes. The eyes are the doorway to the heart and soul. I would prefer someone close, as long distance romances are very tough to do. That is not etched in stone though.

A nice quiet setting where we could get to know each other. It could be a walk on the beach or in a park. Any where that both people are comfortable. If you want to meet for coffee it would have to be in the morning, as that is the only time I drink coffee. First dates are very hard, but you just have to be yourself and everything will work out. As Popeye once said: "I am's what I am's and thats all's I can be." Don't be shy about meeting as you never know what will happen.