I am a soldier in the US Army reserves. In the civilian sector I am a Federal Law Enforcement Officer. I have a busy life. My 14 year old son is my world, sun, moon and stars. I took years off from serious dating, my time with him was more important. But, now I am ready to step foot out there and see what is out there for me.
I am looking for someone successful in thier career. Someone finacially stable. He has to be able to stand on his own two feet. A good head on thier shoulders and a good heart. Sweet personality, good sense of humor. And he must love the beach and water activities. I am a very patient person, I understand compromise in a relationship, give and take, equally. I want a man to stand beside me. Says what he means and means what he says. I need someone not to look at my outside, but my inner self. I am not high maintenance, I am not a girly girl. I am tomboyish. I like wearing shorts and a ball cap. But, I can throw on a dress and make up and look totally different.

I like my first date would be an easy laid back, no stress outing. To check out where our maturity levels are. Maybe go to dinner, a ball game or a movie.