I am in an open marriage, really, and it's difficult finding a mature woman, by mature not necessarily chronologically, someone who is intelligent, open minded, sensuous and fun. I'm not looking for a serious relationship, but not looking for a one night stand. I want a fun friend and lover.

On our first date I would like to have some drinks somewhere with decent music in the background so we can really see if we click. No pressure. Where it goes from there is up to the lady. I can be traditional lover or quite submissive.