Sort of new to all this.(Doesn't everyone write that? Who says "I'm starting my third year on POF) Thought that I would give it a try. It's almost one step above just opening the phone book at random.Just a regular guy. With a dark dry sense of humour. I like intelligent independent women. Who can carry on interesting conversations and keep me on my toes. Must have a brain and be her own person. I want a friend, not an appendage. I hate writing these things. Never know what to say. Lots of interests. It is not what your doing, as so much as who your with. It can be some thing as simple as going for a walk or having a nice talk. I know this all sounds very cliche and trite. But I like women who can carry on conversations, have varied interests, maybe have a little goofy side to them. I like to try different and new things, from restaurants, to plays to just doing anything spontaneous. Always wanted to skydive. I'm also an artist, graphic artist. Too many interest. Keep physically active. Work out 3 times a week. Sorry for the lack of pics, but I don't have alot of me. Not sure what I expect from all this. Turned off from the bar scene. Years as a bartender will do that. Drunk people slurring all over you and saying "I love you man" gets a little tired. LOL. So I'm pretty much an open book, just ask me anything. " Art is a corner of Nature seen through a Temperment"-James Macneil Whistler. Favorite quote.

First date can be anything.probadly more of a "meet and greet". No pressure is what I believe. They do tend to be like some weird job interview. LOL. Your always on your best behavior. Trying not to show our habits. We all have weird things about us. So if you secretly have a room full of stuffed unicorns. That's fine. Weird but fine. LOL. So act like yourself, not someone else.The classic is to meet for coffee. Sure, it's a stereotype. Maybe meet for coffee and go and do something else. I haven't gone bowliHadng in awhile.LOL The important part is to just meet and see if there is any interest or connection.If interested drop me a line. Don't be afraid to make the first move. I'm not a mind reader. LOL.Take care and thanks for reading.