Why you should get to know me:
i really dont know... because we could laugh. I had a joke up here but I guess some people were taking it wrong and I apologize for that. Guess my sense of humor is a bit off.I just try to be happy and not take life to serious.

What have past relationships taught you?
past relationships have taught me that there is good inside everyone. Every relationship teaches u something about urself and about how to treat someone. The question is... what do u do with the lesson that u learn

(lol ... did i say that)


Describe some of the most important things in your life:
I will describe ONE important (my way of bucking the system)


My kids are the most important thing that will ever be in my life , I am honored to watch them grow to be kind, respectful, honest, hard working adults... and dont believe that u cant be ur kids best friend and still give them guidance that will last them a lifetime. My kids are living proof...

(hummmm hope i dont live to eat those words... they are still kids...lol)


Describe your perfect day:
waking up


One final thing I'd like to mention...
laugh , love, and most of all be urself... dont let anyone change the u that u have always been. thats what brought them to u to begin with

April 29, 2008: My father died yesterday... the heavens have a great man and the world is a lonlier place without him. My mom said he was reaching for the angels before he died, how wonderful.

UPDATE: 5 May: The world is full of people that give and full of people that take. The trick is to find the ones that like to do both equally. Respect for others goes a very long way, the old saying of treating others how you would like to be treated always rings true. You can tell alot about a person character just by writing to them and see if they return your note, everyone gets busy and can't do things right away. But people with the true ablity to care for others will always write a little something back, i.e sorry not interested, hi, how are you. etc etc.. Kindness only takes a minute of your time.

shoot...now i did it... now i have to fill this out... first date .. make my date as comfortable as possible in whatever setting we happen to be in