UPDATE:
THE SUN is out and I have spring/summer fever so it is time to get OUTSIDE, in the garden and OFF the computer. I have a tune in my head..." So we're going to say goodbye for the summer..." It works for me. Shift in focus... no more forums until it gets ugly out again. perhaps see you at camping events if they are local!
I am far from a gym rat but am serious about getting into better shape so I am committed to working hard. . I am interested in people who are positive motivators not negative influences.
ME?:
Bit of an enigma. Most things capture my attention. Few things hold it. That doesn't mean I am hard to please or inattentive, quite the contrary, I am extremely adaptable and flexible but yet still need some sort of structure and balance. Prefer quiet music to LOUD.
I read a really good line in a profile somewhere that said something to the effect that the bumps in the road of life made things more interesting and built character....... I have rumble strips!

A study in contrasts: way hot/ ultra cool (same thing? hahaha) scathingly sarcastic/compassionate, flexible/ focused, energetic/relaxed, exhibitionist/shy, aggressive/pacifist, animal lover/hate snakes, love to eat/ kitchen phobia, dance all night/dance all night!, passionate/reserved, goofy/serious, intelligent/silly, spontaneous/scheduled. Tolerant/impatient. Patient/rolls eyes and sighssssss! hahaha,....Hot tubs/ cold showers, Fireworks/ complete silence, Compulsive/procrastinator. Workaholic/omg Do I have to?, Early to bed/Early to rise, Stay up all night/ still early to rise,.. Hm something wrong with this one....Completely loyal to friends, family and loved ones/fickle to trends and ideas. Cold hands-WARM heart/ WARM hands-cold um,...feet? Always more to come. Dare to find out?
In search of a man possessing atleast SOME of these qualities...
Non smoking, drug free, displays manners when it really matters, non judgmental, baggage that stows neatly under a seat type of guy. I have an easily tickled funny bone. Bonus points if you like to dance and could care less if you look like a frog in a blender doing it! Someone who is fearless enough to enter uncharted waters and tread water endlessly! Lives by the motto,... never cook on a Friday night. Someone who understands a busy schedule does not mean indifference. Prefer that you genuinely enjoy the company of rather than "just tolerate" children and pets.
Perfect thought:
One comes to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.
Friendships blossom, tastes change, THEN perhaps one day while we are out having a blast we'll discuss a date or two and so on and so on and so on.
I prefer fig newtons.