I put dating, as this is what you have to do, in order for it to grow into long term.

Be spontaneous. Get in the car and drive......go anywhere....live life...smile...
laugh alot..especially at yourself...HAVE SOME FUN !!!!!
Get up and dance even when everyone else isn't....
Romance does not have to be planned down to the last minute. It's much more interesting when it comes out of nowhere, and from the heart. Speak to each other with no words. Romance is more than just looking into each other eyes.
It is just as important to be looking in the same direction.


Here are 2 very different stories. Each one has message.


This is the best story I ever heard to explain the meaning of life.

Whoever wrote this can see the soul and I only wish I could meet them:

TWO Wolves

One evening an old Cherokee Chief told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people.

He said."My son, the battle is between two wolves inside us all.

"One is Evil-It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance,
self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.

"The other is Good- It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith."

The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather:

"Which wolf wins?" The old Cherokee Chief simply replied, "The one you feed."






Now A little story to make you laugh...I hope...I wrote this one....or I should say I rewrote it. lol......

Please Someone Hear My Plea......


I'm stranded on this deserted island with Gilligan, The Skipper, and the rest of the gang. I am the one castaway that no one mentions. Matilda(alias).
I was below the SS Minnow making dinner for the guests when the storm hit. Next thing I know I'm on the beach with a seaweed mud mask on me. It's been years of nothing but whining, crying, pleading by Gilligan. I'm the one that keeps all these crazy's alive. Tending to all these nut bars is finally wearing thin. I can't take Gilligan and his antics anymore. He's always falling into a hole or getting stuck in a tree. It took me a month to get mud out of some pretty weird places the last time I helped him. The professor is always hooking me up to something trying to get the radio to work. Don't ask..??? I'm having to break up the cat fights between Ginger and Mrs. Howell. Little do they know what is going on between Maryanne and Mr. Howell....The Skipper spends way to much time in his cabin, in the dark, talking to a coconut. HELP....HELP.....HELP.
Someone please vote me off this island. I have to get off before I go MAD....lol


The reason I included both stories is because this is who I am. One side is spiritual and cares about others. The other is witty and loves to make people laugh.

I am pretty easy to please. I just want to laugh with the person I'm with. I want to feel so thankful that someone let this wonderful person go, so I was at the right place, at the right time to find him. To look over in the night, smile, look up, and say thank you to the angels. Yes, I believe in angels. I believe in fate, and everything spiritual. I hope you do as well. I hope someone I am seeking exists. Maybe its you....maybe serendipity, and our angels will take charge, and we will meet.

Keep laughing and smiling...


I'm waiting

Go to the zoo, or...Lay on the grass and see who we see in the clouds above.
Take a paddle boat out, watch the sunset and talk. Be adventurous and different.

Well its winter so I guess the paddle boats will have to wait awhile. So a walk in the snow. Make snow angels. Go to a park, go on the swings and chat. Something simple with no pressure. Lets not make this an interview. It sure be more of a small get together. Casual..




Side Bar:

Please be within 1 hour driving distance. Have had some great inquiries but they live in the GTA and they don't want to spend hours on the QEW once they realize I live in St Kitts. Can't say I blame them.