am a chartered accountant by profession but 13 years ago I reached my tolerance level for juggling numbers.I decided to reinvent my career to something that I wanted to do.My two final career choices were 1)a cover model for GQ and 2)a computer consultant.After waiting in vain for a call from the people who run the magazine I decided on the latter.I work out of my house have accquired a large client base make very good money and love what I do. (Should you be with Revenue Canada or one of my clients then the truth is that I am struggling to make a living.I am always surprised that people actually pay me to do what I gladly do gratis (again if you are a client of mine I'm only kidding).

My past history is marked by two long term relationships.I met my wife when I was 16 married her at 23 and we split when I was 37.
Next year I started another relationship which lasted 12 years. Along the way I was involved in another relationship where I learned that should you hire (employ) the person you are dating you have twice as much chance to be miserable.

As you can see from my photo I do not look (or for that matter act) my age .When challenged by some of my contemporaries as to why my hair has retained it's original colour, my significant other at that time blurted out "He gives other people grey hair"
Due to some unfortunate circumstances I have no children of my own. This is one are of my past that I do truly regret since I get along fabulously with my friend’s kids and some times wonder what might have been.

So give me a try. You have nothing to lose but your time.

The perfect first date is one that leads to a second date lol.Seriously though the perfect first date is one where you get to learn as much about the person as you can in that time span. As they say You never get a second chance to make a good first impression.With this in mind it would have to a situation where there are no distractions and both participants try to learn as much as possible about the other's environment likes dislikes etc.And seeing that we are no longer teenagers it should be a forum for complete candidness and honesty