"Only infinite love is real, everything else is just an illusion."
-David Icke

Where to begin....I'm an intelligent, caring, honest single guy who is looking for someone who can accept me as I am, not as who they want me to be. I am the kind of person who will give you the world as long as it is appreciated. I'm not really looking for anything too serious, but who knows....we'll just have to see where it goes. I'm pretty laid back, and open to everything that life has to offer. Who knows...I may be the one....or not.....we'll never know unless we try.

"Only that in you which is me can hear what I'm saying." - Babba Ram Dass

Honesty is #1. Without that foundation, nothing else can ever be built....Being a free spirit can have its drawbacks, but the positives far outweigh the negatives. I love spending my time around others who have a positive outlook and aren't caught up in drama of any nature. I am pretty much an open book, available to any and all to read if you are interested....I have nothing to hide or hold back....I ALWAYS tell it like it is, even if it isn't what you want to hear...there's no point in holding things back, life is too short and too precious...I have no time for games, and no respect for the people who play them, so if this is you KEEP ON KEEPIN ON. That being said,I'll get this out into the open: I used to party REALLY hard not so long ago (as you can see in some of those older pics). Yes, I used to...USED TO. I guess you can say that I've finally grown up a bit (BOOO! lol) and have moved on to the next stage of my life. Life has a funny way of teaching us things, and I wouldn't trade anything I've experienced for the world. It has made me who I am, and even though I've done many many many things that most people would frown upon, I have also learned a great deal of things that many many many people will never allow themselves to learn about themselves, others, and their surroundings. I don't look down upon others, and I can only hope that the same courtesy would be extended to me :)

Oh, and what's up with all you ladies saying "must not live at home"???....Would you prefer we lived someplace else...like the street, or the park??...lol.

Trust me....I am probably one of the few good ones left in this area of NY....

Since I get a lot of questions regarding "New Age", let me explain a bit....I am not Christian, Hindu, Buddhist, Mormon, Islamic, Jewish, etc....I guess what I mean is I believe that all religions overlap in some of the core fundamentals of their basis...So, I learn what I can from each and how it applies to my daily situation....Trust me, I don't judge a person on their beliefs...as long as you don't try to convert me to YOUR belief system, we'll get along fine :)

"In truth there are as many religions as there are individuals." - Ghandi

I love live music. Can't say it enough. As long as it isn't 'pop-country'...that sh*t makes me want to gouge my eyes out with a spork. I'm usually just a bum, lounging around in comfy clothes most of the time, but I can clean up rather nicely for those special occasions. I mainly spend free time when I'm not working by writing music, making music, yuckin it up with my pals, taking spontaneous road trips with no destination, biking, hiking, or just sitting around relaxing with good company. I'm not too picky about what I'm looking for....but the real beauty must come from within. I'm searching for someone who is willing to do what it takes to make it work. Someone who not only makes me want to be around them, but someone who wants to be around me.

That's not too much to ask for is it?
Now to quote a favorite song:

Took a moment from my day
wrapped it up in things you say
mailed it off to your address
you will get it soon, unless
the packaging begins to break
and all the points I try to make
tossed my thoughts into a bin
my time leaks out, my life leaks in

You won't find moments in a box
and someone else will set your clocks
took a moment from my day
and wrapped it up in things you say
And mailed it off to you...

You won't find moments in a box
And someone else will set your clocks
I took a moment from my day
I've been Wading in a Velvet Sea

"You need music, I don't know why. It's probably one of those Joseph Campbell questions, why we need ritual. We need magic and bliss, and power and myth, and celebration and religion in our lives and music is a good way to encapsulate a lot of it." - Jerry Garcia

BTW- They call me imthemarmar as a member of america on the line (with the lil yellow guy who seems to be in such a hurry to get someplace) so feel free to surprise me!

A first date would be anything personal..maybe something fun?..meeting for coffee/drinks in a quiet setting.....a walk in one of the local parks....watching the sun set over the hills while talking....or even chilling inside watching a movie....I guess we'd have to decide on that when it comes up ;)

Female
Age between 25 and 35