This is the part I dread but here goes...I just turned 41 this yr&said to myself,self its time to figure out what I'd like to find in a mate as opposed to what I want cause in the words of mic jaggar"we can't always get what we want"..but communication is a HUGE must to strt.without that it can't go anywhere. Lking for a man around my age who might not nessisarily lk his age.likes to take care of the outside as well as the inside.My preferance is wht..no offence to anyone but everyone on the planet has a preferance.someone honest,sarcastic,in a fun way. Funny,lving,kind,grt teeth,smile&breath is a must cause this grl LOVES2KISS!! etc.. Not lking for perfection just smone to walk with not ahead of or behind just be equal together. The rest well.. Send me a msg& maybe we can chat smtime. P.s I choose tlk/email cause I'm not one for giving my # to strangers all willie nillie..but smtimes if u chat via txt u can get smwhat of an idea of what the phone convo might be like.again just my preferance.

First date depends on vibes.I'm a true believer in vibes.either its there or its not.first date could b a simple walk on the beach&see where it goes.but communication plays a big part.can't get2 know ppl on a one sided convo but dnt monopolize a convo either hearing means listening.