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9philter : friend with benefits
 
City Courtenay British Columbia
Area Canada
Ethnicity Caucasian
Sign Gemini
Height5' 7" (170 cm)

 
Age 50
Gender Man
Body Type Thin
Religion Non-Religious
Hair Color Gray
Private Images No
Chemistry View | Relationship Needs: View

 
I am Seeking a Woman Who is Looking for Other Relationship

 
Smoker? No
Do you drink? Socially
Marital Status Married
Profession retired
Smarts Some college
 
Do you want children? Does not want children
Do you do drugs? No
Do you have children? All my kids are over 18
Do you have a car? Yes

  Interests
friend with benefits

 About Me
 Looking for a friend with benefits. Discretion assured and expected.
I’ve been married too long and tired of living the celibate life. I am looking for a lady living under similar circumstances for a very discreet long term relationship. We both would not be interested in leaving our marriages and do not have an open relationship, which I have heard often leads to jealousy and we do not want the others partner to know or contact us. I have a very safe nice place for our encounters. I have only had one other lady (for 5 years) under these circumstances who lives in Oceanside California. I used to go there on business about 5 times a year before I retired in 2004; therefore I do not have the opportunity/reason to go there anymore.

About me:

I retired young; am 55 years old, 5’ 7”, slim (135 lbs), in good health and condition. Not hard on the eyes. (Vain or what? LOL) Have my hair (graying) and teeth. I have a great sense of humor. Articulate, educated and world wide traveled.
Enjoy a beer and love a nice red wine with a fine meal (I am an excellent cook).
Absolutely NO Drugs, do not and have never had a STD. Non-smoker.
Not into heavy makeup or strong perfumes.
I am very affectionate, loving and gentle.. Love to snuggle. Love to kiss.
Sex – almost everything goes, I am good for at least 3 times usually, love oral.

About you:

Age: 40 – 60, slim/petite/proportionate. Large breasts not required.
Prefer you be married, but if you are single/divorced/widowed and expect nothing more than being pampered and are very discreet, that would be fine.
Enjoy a beer and love a nice red wine with a fine meal.
Absolutely NO Drugs, do not have a STD. Prefer non-smoker.
Love to be pampered and waited on, affectionate/loving. Love to snuggle and kiss.
Sex – almost everything goes, you have a good sex drive and like oral and toys. I like it when you talk or even a little scream during sex.

If I have piqued your interest, Email me at ( Philter9@yahoo.com) - look up the word Philter ( Philtre) in the dictionary and figure out the meaning.

 First Date
  First meeting/Encounter

I am in the Comox Valley. Our first meeting would be up to you: Rotten Ronnies, Georges, Coast Westerly for a drink/dinner, your place, my place, any place you feel safe. If we click, we could even then head off to our “Golden Pond” retreat. If you can afford unnoticed time away, our next meeting could be a fine meal/BBQ at my place, or again, anywhere you wish. As my wife travels a lot, I have unlimited time at your disposal during her absence.


 
9philter has 2 roses that can be sent.

Mail Settings (To message 9philter you MUST meet the following criteria.)
  Female
Age between 33 and 60
Live in Canada
Live within 75 miles.
Must not do drugs

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