My friends say I am funny, smart and too generous. I suppose I agree with the first 2, but really, is it even possible to be too generous??? What does that even mean? I would say that I am fun and rarely boring (think Lorelai Gilmore). I have a great career, good friends and a life I love. I think it's usually easier to get forgiveness than permission and that if you act like you know what you are doing, most people will believe you and lots of them will follow you. I believe in the goodness of people and that life is a banquet but most poor folks are starving to death. I am a bit of a****yed optimist, a lover of life, a searcher for meaning and a keeper of secrets. If this intrigues you a bit or sounds like someone you could hang with, give me buzz. I promise to respond to all messages and not to be boring.

Most first dates are a bit awkward - all those long pauses. For first dates I like to play "get to know each other games". I have a great book called The Book of If and it's a great icebreaker. Plus I figure that most people relax over good food, so I think eating is a good choice - Italian is my favorite. I actually went to Italy on a cooking tour and learned a few things.