I'm a 36 year old guy with an 11 year old son. I've been divorced for over 8 years now. I served 7 years active duty in the U.S. Army...I'm now medically retired from the military. I've been in the medical field now for 15 years but looking to explore new ventures in life. I'm very mellow and tend to be adventurous, spontaneous, and outgoing! I'm a teddybear and I'm not ashamed of being romantic!

In my personal opinion, a first date shouldn't be spent going to a movie or a concert!!! A first date is a time when you want the opportunity to sit with the person and communicate....get to know each other! Maybe over a nice dinner at a nice restaurant and possibly a nice walk afterwards. But, I thinks its best that the two individuals talk about the first date for starters and come to an agreement!