Hello, I've made sure to put authentic pictures of myself on my profile because I believe in being honest, upfront, direct. I'm not a small woman, but I am kind, loyal, honest to a fault. Some other things that are not average, I have a big laugh, a big heart, a huge sence of humour and tons of patience again to a fault sometimes. I'm also shy, but I'm not afraid to look someone in the eye and shake their hand when I need to.

I'm independent I have a great career, my own home and I can handle just about anything I need to, except being alone. Ever try to go to a movie or dinner, or to the beach on your own? It's boring let me tell you, I'm looking for someone to share my life with. I went to Greece this past fall had a Great Time but I would have been so much nicer to have that special someone by my side enjoying it with me.

I'm looking for a guy that will bring me flowers just because he feels like it, that will hold the door for me or complete strangers just because it's polite. I'm looking for a guy that likes his own time for himself but looks forward to spending time with me too. I'm looking for a guy that means what he says and does what he promises. I guy that when he asks you out it means he has something planned and not say "So what do you want to do?" as he standing in your doorway. Someone that will hug you for no reason except that he enjoys it. Please be honest, you wont break my heart if there isn't a spark, but you will hurt my feelings if you shut up and disappear because you aren't brave enough to tell the truth.

So if you want to explore and laugh and play and be loving and gentle and serious when you need to be take a chance, say hi we'll chat and see what happens. Take care.


P.S. Two things:
(1) If you are outside of say a hour away from St. Thomas then be forewarned I am NOT interested in a long distance relationship. I want to meet someone local so I can get to know you face to face I don't want to have to spend hours traveling to visit, and mostly only talk over the phone or internet.
(2) If you're not Single then don't bother you have to be LEGALY and completely Divorced papers in hand before I would consider dating that person. Been there done that not going to do it again ... just so you know.