About Me:

I was just re-reading this and I think I come across a bit aggressive. I am so NOT aggressive. I guess I am trying to get in all the information that seems important in one shot here. Maybe it isn't all that important to do it that way. What do you think?

Let's get the I am married part OUT OF THE WAY. Every month when I get the New Matches for that month and I actually click to see who might be new, I get a list of guys who are married and not separated from the "little woman". This is NOT what I am looking for. I will be divorced as soon as I can be. I have had NO CONTACT with MR WONDERFUL for over nine years now. I may be a widow...I don't know. Sometimes in the game of life there are just curve balls that are impossible to hit. This is mine..it is not unalterable...I would much prefer to be divorced. I welcome any questions on this situation. I keep my life transparent and I read like an open book.

Above average woman languishing away in God's Own Country. I have gone beyond myself and have discovered that I can enjoy my own company, and yet at times, I feel that certain void. My preference is to be a part of someone else's life. Two people that add to each other's existance equals a great plan for a rewarding life. We stand side by side and look out towards the world.

I am an intelligent, friendly, dependable, woman with a good sense of humor who loves to laugh and enjoy life. I have pretty traditional values and am looking for a man with the same. I cherish honesty, integrity, openness, sensitivity, creativity and intimacy.

I am well read, well traveled, well educated and wickedly funny. (the wickedly comes after we know each other well, until then I am just funny)

About You:

Would a man after God's own heart be too much to ask for? I don't care about religion, I care about your spirit, your principles, your personal truth.

Actions ARE words.

Must be willing to get to know each other fairly well before we have a face to face meeting. The chemistry is important, yes, however, if it takes off full blast, and then we are left staring at a stranger who we have nothing to say to...bummer. This necessitates the need for e-mail and Instant Messaging. I am hearing impaired and I never know how I am going to do with a stranger on the phone. If we get to that point we can try, if your voice is deep and you talk slow, we may do fine.

If the fact that I am hearing impaired bothers you, please keep going. It has never stopped me and I would not want it to make you uncomfortable.

Must have sense of humor.



I don't care if you drink socially, I DO care if you drink to get drunk. Drugs and drunkeness are OUT. And on that one, I have pretty much developed an attitude of ZERO TOLERANCE.

Notes to anyone interested:

I SMOKE. (and yes it is your choice to have a ZERO TOLERANCE attitude with that one and I won't blame you a bit.)

I am seeking a divorce from a man I have had NO CONTACT with for over nine years and my interests are ONLY in monogamous relationships.

In a committed relationship, I am ruthlessly faithful.

My Pictures:

They are all recent pictures. At 20, you have the face God gave you. At 62, you have the face you deserve. No surgery, just me. Thanks, mom for the good genes. I am NOT the one saying, I look younger than my age, I am saying, that it has come up more than a few times. So in case you are wondering....or get NEW glasses, or put down that drink, or or or whatever....will put up new pics soon, I can't believe I have been on this site well over one year. SOMEBODY TAKE ME OFF