Hello there. It is hard for me to have to describe me but here it goes. I am 42 and my birthday is in Feb and not Jan but I could not get it to change for me. I have been married twice. My first marriage I was married for 11 yrs and then he was killed in an auto accident going on 14 yrs ago. My second was married a yr and then divorced as he was immature and I was not quite ready to be married again.I have two wonderful children who are my life right along with my daughter in law and grandson. My son is 24 , married, has a 3 yr old son and a Staff Sgt in the Army. My daughter is 18, working two jobs and finishing up high school and she lives at home with me.

I have an associate degree in business, minor in law and currently working on my bachelors in accounting. I also am a tax associate that is on layoff at the moment. I rent a home that my daughter and I live in and then my aunt and her daughter needed a place to live so they live with us as well.

I love to read murder mystery, take long walks, listen to all kinds of much(it is a big part of my life as I have it on all of the time), love having bbq's with family and friends, swimming, shooting pool, bowling, 4wheeling, horse back riding, nights under the stars, races, some sports and cuddling.

I do not like nor will I tolerate liars, cheaters, gamblers, abusers, drug users, thieves or game players.

However I am looking for someone that can and will love me for me. Someone that can leave me always wanting more, can give me butterflies from the thought of him, the sight of him or his picture, his voice or the mention of his name, and then that special touch from him and only him. Someone that is going to be there still kissing and hold my hand or taking those walks with me when we are 90 years old. Carrying that same feeling as if we had just met for the first time.

I am pretty easy going, down to earth and love life. I love to have a clean home and am organized on almost everything I do. Other times I just like to go with the flow. Now I can dress and mingle with the best of them or I can lounge and talk with the rest. Not trying to say that anyone is any better than the next just saying that I am able to adapt with just about anyone or anything. I do find my self with a very wonderful personality, I love to make people around me smile, laugh and happy as much as can.

Now I am a full figured gal and have heard all the excuses in the book on why not to date me so if you are not into full figured don't even bother stopping and chatting. Unless it is to be my friend. I don't mind making friends at all as that is how the world goes around. But I am not here for criticism on my body style and looks.

I am not one to go for looks because the looks does not matter to a point. I am not looking for Mr. America but there does have to be some attraction with them. And when I am with that certain person I am 100% committed to them completely. However, I am a big flirt but know not when to cross that line. And i do not like to be told what to do or be controlled. I feel that in any relationship that it should always be equal.

Well some place that we would both be comfortable with and be able to get to know a bit more about each other without all the distractions.. like maybe a park, coffee shop, dinner and a movie.