Update time: My son is finally in college and moving on to his next stage of development, allowing me to also move on to mine. I am here mostly for the "forums" but will take the time to know another if they take the time to know me.
I am independent, self sufficient, financially secure, and athletic. I seek to find someone that is similar to me and my desires, as I try to be to theirs. Looks will get my attention, and brains will keep me close to you. I believe that I offer what I am looking for and I will not settle for less. I am a single father of one son who is my life and will remain first in my domestic domain until he leaves home for college. Talk to me if you are educated, sophisticated, active and decent looking......and I will talk to you and let you decide if I meet your criteria. Please do not contact me if you are not sharing your picture as I am.....Thank you.
Update number two......I appreciate all those that contact me and would like to know me better, but please help me out here if you would.
I would prefer to meet and date another that fits in the BMI tables on a similar scale to what I am. This for me means 21 to 24, which I am at and would enjoy the one I am getting to know to be somewhere in that mix as well. If you do not know what I am talking about, please take the time to research it some in order for the both of us to be on the same page when meeting.
I am but a man that is average in height, weight, and condition. I ask no more, nor accept no less.
By the way.....POF has decided that I am an INTJ for whatever that could mean to you and your search. I am also older than I look, and happy to share that secret with you when we meet and share secrets.
Thank you......

I prefer to meet for coffee or a drink and just get to know each other; or a ride together and just enjoy the outdoors. We both will need the time to look over each other and break down whatever facades that may exist and see if we have any true connection, understanding, spiritualism and attraction to each other.
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Must not be married
Must not smoke