I am a nice, happy, southern woman with a slight southern accent who loves my life (most of the time-when I am not meeting stalkers and cheaters!) If anyone has ever described you as a 'player', please don't msg me (you know if you are). I detest liars and cheaters (whether married or in a committed relationship). They are a waste of time. I believe that each day is a gift and I am thankful for every one. I travel alot but am trying to stay local now with my job when possible.

To all the smokers out there: If someone says they don't want to date a smoker, they probably mean it. All the mouthwash in the world still won't kill it. Don't mean to sound like a b!tch, just being honest. As far as my taste in music, I like too much to put on here - except rap.

On a more serious note, I am currently a size 10/12 (have lost 60 pounds) so if you do not know what that size is, please check it out. I would call me 'Voluptuous' I guess ? so if you aren't into that then good luck to you.

Having been married before, I/we owned about 8 - 10 boats which were all on lakes in KY but my love is the sea. If you have a boat, no matter what size, that means you are probably an ocean lover like me. There is SO much ocean to explore that some will never see in their lifetime. Sad. Even more sad is the way some people treat OUR oceans. Google 'Plastic Island'.... then you will understand what SO MANY people are so worried about.

There is no room in my life for jealousy, insecurities, or men who are just looking for a 'good time' one night or every now and then. I want to connect with someone on a deeper level than just casual dating. I have found, at this point in my life, that I will not be with someone just because I am bored or lonely. I will not be with someone who lets their ex-wife control their lives by using their children as a means of revenge or control. Someone who doesn't still have their Mother paying their bills and who doesn't need their Mother or ex-wife's 'approval' before they date someone. If you are looking for a replacement for your mother, move on. I want a REAL man who stands up for themselves and their rights, someone who is secure with themselves in every aspect.

IN OTHER WORDS, A 'REAL' MAN IN EVERY SENSE OF THE WORD!

**If I do not respond to your email, please do not be offended - I am not able to get on here 24/7 because of my job so I only respond to the ones I feel there might be chemistry with as my time online is limited. I certainly do NOT think I am 'all that' by any means-more the opposite probably! I am pretty sure we all get messages from ppl we do not feel like we would be a good match with on here. Having to spell it out in writing is certainly not something that I take pleasure in. You could call it rude....I call it painful, on both sides.



Something to think about: Thoughts become things.

I will let you decide. Public place please. Chemistry is either there or it's not. WE will know.