Me: Thoughtful, affectionate and compassionate with a peaceful spirit. Sane, even-tempered, smart, accepting, sweet and spicy. Romantic and very loyal. Feminine, gentle, soft and sensual. Socially liberal, financially conservative, ultimately practical (in a dreamy kind of way). Love family/friends, parties at my house, music under the stars and Sunday mornings spent in bed with a good book or special someone who’s read one . Love the arts (volunteer for KCYA), theatre, festivals, farmer’s markets, day trips, gardens, the Chiefs and trying new things. Walking and yoga keep me fit. My favorite local group is Scotty and the Soul Tones – sexy, soulful blues to dance to.

You: Classic gentleman who opens doors and gives me his jacket when it's cold. You’ll have strength and vulnerability, boyish charm and a bit of mischief. You’ll surprise me. Little things, notes left, an unexpected call, flowers for no reason. Small gestures show you care enough to keep the flame alive. You’ll be curious, have interesting thoughts, opinions, views or observations. You‘ll be strong, smart and gentle. Healthy in mind, body and spirit. Gotta wanna go, see, do.

Us: We want warmth, sweetness, partnership and tranquility with a healthy mix of fun. Trust and communication is the coin of the land. We don't let opportunities waste away. We flirt throughout the day. You’ll make me blush, I’ll make you guacamole. We’ll learn what our partner wants, then take pleasure in making sure they get it. We won't whine, make excuses, or dwell in life's puddles, instead we flourish. We pick up our own socks. There's passion and respect. We share basic values and tolerate good naturedly individual differences. You take the grill and I’ll make the sides.

Take a moment to get acquainted?

I am not interested in long distance relationships, serial daters or players.

Communicate by email and then by phone and if we click we can meet casually.