I have cyber searched for my soulmate before - and although I have made many new friends and even had a great relationship or two result from it, obviously it is nothing that has stuck. So... let's try this again lol - I am a caring, witty, intelligent, silly at times individual. I am NOT high maintinance...generally 30 min from the word go and I can be ready for any occasion...sometimes less lol - I pride my self on not requiring a mirror to check my make-up (don't wear much) every ten minutes, yet I never leave the house with out my toenails painted red and my hands well manicured - I love all walks of life and joining in - I would rather be a player than a spectator :) - And going from one extreeme to the next just for guessing sake makes life fun - from camping & conoeing to dressing to kill and being the center of attention when I walk into a room. People tell me it's all in the attidude I portray and the way I carry myself that makes them want to know me. Oh and hey! not only do I allow Golf to take presidence over most things lol but Hell I am a d*mn good cook too :) too good a combo eh?lol

Here is a well thought out idea of what kind of guy I am interested in... 5'10" or taller, lives near by, compassionate, intelligent, giving, Attractive (someone other than your mother or sister has said so lol)and somewhat in shape, prefer self employed, FAMILY orientated, open to new spontaneous things, likes to camp, likes to golf, wants children, would be a good father and faithful husband, a gentleman, gives me my space when I need it, not a nerd or too sarcastic, can take a hint, social, calls for no reason, remembers sending a note or a nominal gift IS romantic and necessary, respectful, sense of humor, and thinks the world of me. I am not interested in anyone older than 46 and anyone who is less than financially secure since I do not plan on changing the lifestyle I have grown accustom to and hope to one day be a stay at home mom and furthermore... my children will never want for ANYTHING (but of course will not be spoiled brats either lol) they ill know the value of a dollar. You should also love animals :) I am not attracted to red heads at all lol sorry. I know my standards are High - I realize I may come accross rather strong, however, I can assure you I am not over-powering or needy person...I know what I want and what I am attracted to so why waste my time and yours. Thank you and God Bless! p.s. this is really just an ideal wish list :)

Well, a first can be touchy, I like to chat on yahoo im first and see if we get along the a few calls then the first meeting over coffe, ice cream or even****ails, and if we like eachother... well... the next date i would consider the first real date. Then I would LOVE to be suprised... something fun of course :)

Male
Age between 29 and 48
Live within 75 miles.
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not be looking for Hang Out
Must not be looking for Talk/E-mail
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Friendship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be looking for Activity Partner
Must not do drugs
Must not be married