I find it is getting more difficult to find a person that wants to experience life as it comes, with another person without taking over the entire situation. (I hope that makes sense to some body else besides me !!!) Everyone says that there is another person out there that wants the things you want. Well, where are you ????? I don't have any plans for the future, except to take life as it comes, and to enjoy another person's company and see what happens. I am most attracted to athletic/thin body types. (No offense to anyone out there)

A first date is a chance to find out if you have anything in common, so I really feel that it is best decided by both parties. Maybe coffee first and then if I had to choose a second "date",I would say a really good movie, play, or a concert. (Rock or classical: both are favorites of mine) Then a really good meal, as I love Resturants. That's the time you really get to learn about someone. Then, if it's not too late (and you find that the date hasn't "self-destructed") maybe take in a club, or a comedy club just to lighten the mood.