I am 40's, well preserved, intelligent, articulate. I enjoy communication. I have been told that that is an unusual characteristic for men. I listen carefully and have a knack for explaining myself thoroughly. I am very comfortable in my own skin. I don't get stressed about the things life throws my way. I'm a professional Firefighter/Paramedic and enjoy having a very physical lifestyle. Like most people, I really enjoy being told I don't look my age. I'm broad shouldered, no balding, with piercing green eyes and an easy smile. I enjoy travel, snow skiing, snorkelling in the Caribbean, and building muscle cars. I was married for 25 years, divorced for nearly 4 and have 2 sons, 23 and 19. They both make me very proud. I come from a muscial background and have sung all my life. I suppose that rubbed off on them because I've been able to support both of them as vocalists in local bands for the last several years.

Now that they're both older and more mobile, I am casting about a little bit discovering things that I enjoy doing with my time. I'm having fun going new places and learning new things. I'm not really very physically attracted to 'a few extra pounds' or BBW. I know that may sound shallow. Sorry about that. I am not looking for Barbie or Miss America, but I can't deny that at least Height/Weight Proportionate is important to me. Thank you for reading through my profile!

First dates should be a mix of something fun mixed with some quieter time to get to know one another.