I am 47. I am overweight. I am working on that. (I have lost about 30 pounds so far). I am looking for a woman who is in good shape/healthy or getting there like me. I want to be in good shape when I am 50 and even better shape when 60, 70, etc. I am the youngest of 4 with three older sisters. I am a workaholic who has let that get in the way of my personal life. I am working(sic) on that. I am ready for a relationship. I am optimistic but realistic. I am trying to become a better man, so I can become a better mate. Somedays, I want kids, other days not so much. I believe in love, peace, tolerance, honor, family, respect, slow wet kisses, holding hands, caring for others. I have only really been intimate with one woman(strippers don't count) and that was awhile ago. Don't worry. I have things well in hand. I love good art and design. I like to think I have an open mind. I am the guy who would hold up the door, take you to the airport, help you move, pull out your chair, listen to you. More later.

Dinner and a movie or movie and a dinner with dessert to follow. Art galleries, museums, bookstores. Time to talk and get to know each other. I am not a drinker, so maybe bars-not so much, but sports bars, OK as long as they have diet soda.