Hello, and thanks for reading my profile!

Ok, well no way I can sum up an entire life in a few paragraphs, so I'll just hit a few points: I can be funny, serious, quiet, passionate, drive you nuts or make you cry (for 'good' reasons), make smoke role out of your ears or laugh till your sides hurt, body check you (gently) in a game of street hockey, show you no mercy in mini golf (unless you flirt with me and make me loose my concentration, lol) or kiss you gently for hours. Just like most people, I'm complex, excentric in some ways (how boring it would be if we weren't), and will be like no one you have ever met before (you'll have to decide if that's good or bad!).

Family is important to me, and having children in my life again would be a nice thing, if that were the case.

You can also get a bit of an idea of who I am by looking at my list of interests.

What am I looking for in a woman? Well, I'm pretty flexible. I'm just looking for a smart 'NO BS' woman with a down-to earth, common sense outlook on life. Someone who knows when to laugh, when to cry, when to be serious, when to be silly, when to be sexy and sensual, ...and who knows how and when to pick her battles. Someone who understands the four basic building blocks of a relationship: Like, Love, Lust, & Trust. They all go together. Without any one, no relationship will endure.

So, if I sound like someone you could start a friendship with, do say hello.


**Oh, and to those who have an issue with those of us on POF who are truthful and give our status as 'seperated': Would you rather we lied? That is where we are, and till it changed to the big 'D', it's just a fact of life. But please give us the benefit of the doubt before you pass judgement. It's a step to the rest of our lives we have to go through, and we can't change that.**

And for some final thoughts on the world of POF:
Some quick numbers to ponder: 6 billion+ people on the planet, 3 billion of the opposite sex, with at least 10% of those in your acceptable age range. So that's 300,000,000 people to chose from. So A: There must be at least a few good ones out there, and B: Then why, with so many to choose from is it so had to find that special one??? Is it that we simply cannot find that needle amongst the 300 million haystacks, or does POF make it too easy to ignore the plain steel needle in front of us, while always assume the next haystack will hold a better, ’golden’ needle? Think about it: There might indeed be a better, golden, needle out there, but with 300 million haystacks to go through, do you want to gamble that you’ll find it before it’s too late?

Start out with a chance to talk in a quiet place, so we can get to know each other. We can decide what's next after that. Fair enough? And remember, there's never a bad time for a good relationship, and never a good time for a bad one. The trick is to know the difference!