I am a firm believer that you are what you experience and for me good, bad or ugly I wouldn't change a thing.

I am proud of who I am and have learned a lot from the wide variety of experiences I have had in life. They have made me who I am. I am confident but not arrogant and appreciate people for who they are not what others say about them...know what I mean ?

Personality wise I am cool as a cucumber. I don't get stressed and the only thing that gets me angry are the ding dongs driving down the road who don't know how to use a signal light...haha

I believe honesty is the best policy and I call things as I see them. Not being mean or hurtful because that accomplishes nothing. I listen as much as I can talk and boy can I ramble on...sort of like Im starting to do here.

Relationship wise in my life I have spent more time being single than being a part of a couple so I am not someone who MUST have someone in their life. I believe things should evolve on their own and don't believe in games, jealousy or any of that nonsense. Who's got the time for that ?

You know how women with kids understandably say they put their kids first ? Well after a couple of relationships where I heard that I came second or lower I decided to put me first. It sounds selfish and it's hard to explain but the simple truth is that I just think if I can be understanding of parenting is it too much to ask that some understanding be returned my way ?

Anyhow...if you think you may be interested send me a message...I have nothing to hide so if there is anything more you want to know about me feel free to ask :)

Somewhere both of us would be comfortable with...see what evolves....