I'm a winner, a survivor, a phoenix maybe. I've had men tell me that I'm intimidating, and I take that as a compliment really. I'm angry sometimes, and crazy happy others. And sometimes I feel like I don't know an F-ing thing about how life works, what I'm doing with mine, or how I will ever survive on my own. But then another month passes and I just shake my head. I'll be honest I have a very colorful past but I'm proud of it because it has made me who I am today, and I really like who I've become. I still struggle with things sometimes but I never stop working to improve. I'm laid back, funny, and a great person to hang out with on many different levels.


I'm looking for a really strong guy. Not so much in body but in spirit. That is an absolute must because I am a very strong woman and I would probably just control the $hit out of a passive guy. Unless your into that kind of thing which actually I find kind of kinky and exciting (call me) :)

I love independent films. My favorite movie of all time is Welcome to the dollhouse. I have loved all of todd solondz films, even happiness which was a little disgusting in the end. lol. I also have a taste for foreign films. Amelie, kung fu hustle, and I'm not scared to name a few. And I really get into some anime too. I'm not a movie snob but there are some movies I really don't like. I don't like those spoof movies like date movie, scary movie 1, 2, or 3. I think they are hidiously stupid.

Korn, primus, sonic youth, the cure, violent femmes, tom waitts, incubus, varuca salt, the carpenters, tool, pj harvey, ween,modest mouse, rob zombie, the killers, jet, the eagles, metric, the yeah yeah yeahs, johnny cash, nine inch nails, marilyn manson, really old metalicca and megadeath and what was that other one??? hmm nevermind. Let's just say I love music, okay??


There are lots of things I would like to do. I would like to go back to school, I would like to travel a lot more than I have. And I would like to have someone in my life that I can count on. That's what my life is missing most.

I don't care what we do the main thing I'm looking for in someone is just that connection. The one that has no words to really describe it. Like a flicker, or a spark. I guess they call it chemistry. I'm not picky about what a guy does for a living, or what kind of car he drives. I don't care if he is a body builder or a couch potato just so long as our personalities mesh well and our conversations flow easily. I just don't want to have to force something to work, I'd rather be alone.I don't remember what I said I'm here for but I'm really here just to see. Maybe I'll meet someone that turns into one of the best friends I've ever had, maybe I'll meet someone that I'll just have sex with a few times and never see again, and maybe I'll meet someone that can actually handle being with me everyday. I'm not holding my breath for anything anymore.

younger than 40
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not be married