Transparency: trans·par·en·cy
1. the quality or state of being transparent.
2. Transparent; clear. [Poetic] "Fountain or fresh current . . . translucent, pure." --Milton.
Think you can live your life this way? Do you now?
Transparent: 4. easily seen through, recognized, or detected
You have no reason to be any other way. It is what it is. WYSIWYG. (What you see is what you get)
I'm a SWM, 49, looking for a good woman with an attitude. Must be energetic, intelligent and like to play. Can enjoy anything from staying in watching a movie and cuddling to going out dressed to kill and dancing the night away.
Bonus points for a wild side.

But please be refined when need be

A good first date would be to meet for coffee or drinks and just chat the evening away. Let's find out how our minds work together before anything else.