My thoughts are that life is full of 'ups and downs', and this is how we shape ourselves. But it doesn't mean we are defined by this, right?? I am looking for an attractive female (INSIDE and out) and who is secure in themselves. I like REAL people who don't play games...what you see is what you get. Let's just enjoy each other, maybe even our differences, but most importantly, HAVE FUN and see what happens!! I look for the good in people, in the situations that life hands us, and in our everyday experiences. We are here for a reason, so let's make the best of it! Let's learn from it and move on. (I guess I am saying a positive outlook is great...:)I love kids, my boys are extremely important to me, and I have been succesful job-wise, but I am looking for a great woman to have fun with. Is it you??
I also realize that nobody is perfect, but at least be honest. Life is too short, be who you are and accept it. The best things in life really are free- and sometimes it takes the hard times to realize that you may have missed out on some of the good times! I for one do not want to do that anymore! Do you?? So....let's go!!

A very casual encounter...maybe go have drink, sit back relax and get to know each other...no pressure!

Female
Age between 25 and 42
Live in United States
Live within 75 miles.
Must not do drugs
Must not smoke