Hi,I am a white,40 year old dedicated sassy butterfly, mothergoose type lady divorced since 04 , dedicated single mother of 4 seriously searching for my soul mate,best friend ,future husband. I AM ONLY INTERSTED IN AMERICAN MEN THAT ARE SERIOUSLY READY FOR A LOVING AND COMPASSIONATE MATE.NO SMOKERS OR GAME PLAYERS. I Am into the family oriented man that is more into me for me not just sex and servant type.I am more into a mate for the whole man as a person not just the physical attraction.Skinny and pretty Barbi or Ken does not make the person. I am a mom of disabled children .Life is not easy for us .But I am serious about needing and wanting that trustworthy mate ,a man that is ready and willing to be a part of a ready made family. I would concider and do want a his ,mine ,ours family.I am ready to be with a truely monogomous,responcible and dependable man.It is my personal attraction choice to not date any blacks or middle eastern men due to the past experiences. IF not a citizen no thanks.I am into the man that is patient and humerous and loves family life not the bars and running the road,wild life,and anything that will sleep him type.I am not like that it takes chemistry and friendship. I am not into a man that is a cheap skate or a show off I'm so rich type.I am looking for the man that wants me for me. Not perfect,Not Barbi!HE must be a great communicator and do that often and a great listener ready to share life the good with the bad and work through the issues together.If you can to that I am the lady for you.Keep in mind I am a lady that loves children,comedy within reason,butterflies,horses,and although I like dogs just not a man that is like that and I certainly more like a cat lady. Very territorial and cuddly and loving. I prefer the man that is flexible and well groomed.The romantic ,compassionate and passionate man.I do not date blacks or middle easterners period. Its a choice of personal attraction and personal rights.I prefer to stick with white /native american and I only date American citizens.Thank you for understanding and respecting my wishes.

I enjoy talking and getting to know that person and doing whatever we feel comfortable doing or going . I believe chemistry has to be there.If it is a relationship can blossom and how fast depends on the two of them at any given time.The more romantic and thoughtful my date the more likely I am to want to extent a date.So it can be movie and dinner or dinner and going out dancing /kareoke or picnic or BBQ.I don't mind if feeling safe with this person a dvd after going out and if chemistry is there and we talk til the sun sets or sun rises then breakfast .I am the sponeous type and likes to see where life takes me .Flexible except when it comes to my family life then my time spend has to work with the family needs. frankly I am the lady happy to enjoy simple home life and being ourselves. More private type but absolutely must have a passionate and romantic mate that will make quality time for family and me and time set aside for just us that will work with my family needs/responcibilities as well as a must enjoy my family. I am into family oriented man so romantic but low key works well .Getting to know a person and talking honestly from the heart about whop each other are inside and out ,our hopes and dreams . Just seeing if we have the chemistry it takes to blossom into a blessing positive relationship and learning just where each might be looking to take a relationship.Too slow dont work but wide open wild mustang so not ok.I expect next day communication what you thought and where u want to take it.I expect to explore each others likes and dislikes .Not all at once. simply each enjoying the others company.One cant go wrong with romantic , easy flowing setting and time to explore and communicate goes a long way.Charm helps.