I am an imperfect human. I'm not, nor do I want to be suzy homemaker/soccer mom.

I am casual, usually defiant just because it's fun, driven but not as often as I'd like, open minded, independent, and non-conforming.I have a full life. I am more than content these days but there is more than enough room for someone who doesn't believe relationship = us joined at the hip. Yes, I've met some semi-stalkers. That may say more about my choices then anything else I suppose.

My life is pretty much my own - as much as it can be when most of my money goes to NIMO, Mobil/Exxon and the gov't but oh well. FWIW my kids have father who is a part of their lives. Dad and I both have our own money - I'm not after yours, nor does the fact that you may have a lot impress me. I'm cheap, not easy! :0

I only believe in lust at first site. Real relationships/friendships develop over time after getting to know & understand one another. Understanding takes time and communication.

I like camping, hiking, the Yankees, System of a Down, Rage Against the Machine, pretending that I remember how to play my guitar (well actually that kinda frustrates me but I like a challenge), MMORPGs (recovering EverQuest junky), playing and learning about the sociological & psychological aspects as well as game design).

I spend at least an hour a day in the gym. I am in the midst of a career change - moving from IT to health/fitness. I am in good shape, excellent for my age and expect the same - young at heart, in body, mind and spirit, I need someone who understands why I do what I do - and it's not about the six pack. If you know what I'm talking about I really would like to hear from you.

I like to drive fast. My car is kinda fast but not fast enough. I like loud music. I can't make it loud enough sometimes. When I grow up I wanna be a rock star and be on The Amazing Race. I want to win the Amazing Race and while I'm fantasizing about such things I'll win the World Series of Poker too.

I'm looking for someone with similar or compatible interests. I need to be friends with the person I'm in a relationship with. We need to be able to just hang out and talk about nothing. Someone who won't tell me to turn the music down might work. Money and the stuff it buys (like 10K WSOP buy-ins) are great, but I need someone who is casual and not into keeping up with the Jones'. Externals don't impress me at all and I can't be bought! Talk is cheap!! Although, if I may be hypocritical for a moment...:) I don't usually respond to those without a recent photo.

I don't buy into the "all men are the same" thing because I've never met two who were. I prefer the casual sort with an edge who aren't afraid of/turned off by humble (yes I am I swear I am), sometimes opinionated, self assured women who don't like to clean up after others - (and I won't)! I like someone who will just let me be me. And don't tell me I need to smile. I don't need to smile. I hate cameras. So, if I smiled, my face would look fake and distorted - kinda like it does in the morning. (hmmm, maybe I should smile so you know what you might be getting into?) Smile and camera and me in the same room would be a big fat LIE. I don't lie. If you tell me to lie, I won't be smiling!

SCORPIO

Why is your life so difficult? Because you are still repaying the bad karma you earned the last go-around, when you were Torquemada's rack-master during the Inquisition.

Your exaggerated nature provides extremes of every kind. Compulsions and obsessions explode within your psyche. A startlingly large number of you either become geniuses, or sink into the lowest depths of depravity. You latter types make ideal mates for Pisces.

Your favorite TV shows are reruns of Dark Shadows and you wear a Barnabas Collins ring on your forefinger. You love to point randomly at unsuspecting strangers and mumble gibberish. Your moods range from irritable to pissed off, and you frequently sulk, brood, intimidate, spy and cheat. That's on one of your good days. Unlike Taurus, who is blind to his faults, you are acutely aware of your flaws, but excessively proud of them. For instance, you like to wear a minipicture of your mug shot on a gold chain.

Being a fixed sign means that your emotions and opinions rarely change. You are kindly described as "still water runs deep". You more closely resemble a boiling cesspool of hydrochloric acid. Your metaphorical stinger is always poised for attack and you are supposedly known for vicious verbal barbs. In reality, most of you are merely cantankerous bores who constantly posture and gouge lines in the dirt daring others to step across.

You are so private even your relatives don't know your unlisted phone number. You have a NO SOLICITORS sign on the barbed-wire fence around your property, and anyone attempting to reach your front door will need a map and a flashlight to make it through the overgrowth. You are so paranoid that you think Alcatraz would be a safe place to live.

Scorpios have bumper stickers that say things like, "My child sells drugs to your honor student." You are chronically terse, and have Bad Ass, Son of Bad Ass, or Mother of Bad Ass tattooed on your neck.

You keep a police scanner on the kitchen table to track the movements of your friends -- both of them. Instead of family pictures, your refrigerator is covered with magnetic business cards of lawyers, therapists, and bail bondsmen. Inside is a mishmash of variety ranging from mashed potatoes to granola bars. Your eating habits swing as wildly as your emotions, from Spartan bark eater to comfort-food junkie.

Scorpio is the sign of the prosecuting attorney, psychopath, Mafia negotiator, and more-parts-than-you-were-prepared-to-lose surgeon. Scorpios also make good stalkers, astrologers, and psychics; however very few of you are in the latter profession because you refuse to acknowledge your clairvoyance.

You follow Scorpio Adam Ant's views on sex. He said, "I like sex. My songs are about sex ... sex is my life. I just find it the most exhilarating experience, and I think it should he done on stage." You'd join his band if you could.

You are the most intense of all signs. Telling you to learn to go with the flow, or to lighten up, is ridiculous. Control is your forté. Learn to use it on yourself before running over your children, friends, and lovers with your steel-belted emo

First dates with those I meet online need to be kept short and sweet. Too many times I've hit it off with guys online only to find there is no chemistry (among other things) in person, or what I call real life.

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