I am a DRAMA FREE 48 yr old male currently in school for my BAA in Health Care Management & Administration, looking to meet a lady that is ready for a relationship. I am into my church also in the music ministy there. My goal in life is to be happy. being that I am a musician, I like all kinds of music mainly smooth jazz and that deep down south gospel (I'm a native NY'er, but my roots are from the south). I look to be married one day hopefully before I turn 50 if not 51 will do (lol). I love sports and meeting people. I am not the cluby type but I do like to go out and have a nice time, I also like to be home sometimes just to relax.


I'm looking for a lady who knows herself, fun to be with, and clean. Someone free from unnessary DRAMA and like to travel sometimes. A woman who knows how to let her hair down and live. When a woman can look around herself and see everything is right, she'll know that she's a product from the right, and when a woman can see everything around her is wrong, she can accept the wrong and do the right thing to fix it within herself. A woman who knows the real definition of love and how to give it. A woman that's not so fast to point her finger without looking within herself first. I know that it seems to be perfect and by no means am I looking for a perfect woman, I'm looking for a woman that is a woman, that knows right from wrong.

The first date should be somewhere in the open where we can talk and really listen at each others need and wants in a relationship. Then the dinner and other places can be the next date.