I am a southern gentleman first and foremost!!!!I do not tollerate disrespect especially when a lady is in the room,I am a southern gentleman\man-child,I love to be goofy and make people laugh,I will do anything to make you smile I love my niece and nephew they are my heart and soul,I dont have any kids(yet)but I am looking for that special lady,I know she is out there somewhere!!!Well Ive been tol that this doesnt say much about me,but I say that you have to get to know me,a few words on a website cant describe the enigma that is ....MATTHEW(thats me,LOL)So step right up and take a chance,you never know I could be the one!!!Ok as far as what kind of woman I am looking for,well it doesnt really matter to me,if you are beautiful on the inside the outside is too,LOL,did that make sense????8-15-09 OK,and away we go.....Im matthew but my friends call me matty,Im 42 but Im a big ol kid,lol,Im the type of person that will do anything to get you to laugh/smile especially if your sad darlin.Im a southern gentleman with no kids but my nieces and my nephews are my heart and soul,I might have kids one day but if not thats ok.I gotta let you know that honesty is a big thing with me,Im not one of these "computer cazanovas" that use this thing like a singles bar.I am seriously looking for my soulmate,the person who completes the other half of my heart and soul,LOL,damn now thats a lil deep for 8:35 in the morning.But its true,Im sooo tired of being lied to.Or trying to pick up the pieces of what someother dude did to a young ladies heart,does that make sense??Im really a nice guy and Im tired of games.Im no saint,by any means but Ive reach a point in my life where Im tired of "one night stands",lol,wow did I really just say that??I want to look over at 3:00am and see someone I know and care for,and I know I can lay down next to her and hold her as tight as I can and she wont push me away. ok I basicly wrote my profile over this morning but I didnt want to delete my old one soo enjoy both sides of this coin I call...me

OK,well dig this.....Really good chinesse food,really bad sci-fi or B-horror movies...rain and laughter...or a slice of pie ala-mode with a giant cup of coffee more laughter and hopefully.....me too,doesnt that sound GROOVEY as hell???