so ya, been on here on and off for a while and realized that women play just as many games then guys do. i am honest and open and hope for the same thing - so i guess i am looking for a non-game player and really all i want is, to quote a movie no one saw, "someone to eat cheese with"...

someone that i can have an actual conversation with... someone that it feels ok being in silence with... someone that can be totally silly and also serious if we have to be.... someone who would enjoy a night in (we could order food or i could make us something)cuddling up and watching tv and just being.... someone that likes to go out for dinner with friends and have some drinks and dance (i am a very good dancer).... someone that loves waking up on a weekend morning with someone and then going out for breakfast...someone that likes to laugh (very very very important, as i am very funny lol)...

if you are more the stats/facts oriented person then: yes i know i look young, but i really am 32... my background is italian and russian (but no i do not speak either unfortunately)
-i have two university degrees (political science and film),

-i do a television (www.watchitpodcast.com) and a film podcast and a write a film blog (www.filmedbutnotforgotten.com) as well as 2 photo blogs (pictureit.typepad.com & www.viewsfrommyviewfinder.com)

-i have done a lot of traveling and want to do more(i have been to las vegas, california, puerto rico, mexico, moscow, france, amsterdam, prague, switzerland, oslo, stockholm, coppenhagen, germany, italy, austria, belgium and many others)

-i give a great massage, i am a huge movie buff, i am well-read and eclectic in many aspects of my life and interests, and i am also a big fan of honesty and communication...
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also, i know women like to just sit back and let us send messages, but if you see this and are intrigued, feel free to send me a message or, IM me

and finally - i am looking to meet IN PERSON lol - for some i know that is a crazy notion so i figured i would throw it out there

anything from the very simple to the very not. it depends on the person and what we are both feeling. we could go for a drink, have a snowball fight, go browsing around the city, check out the latest exhibit at the museum or something else.... its all about the company anyway.