Hi there ..I am a single mother of 2 my daughter is 26 and my sons 21 he lives with me daughters out on her own now with my 3 year old grandson.. ..He means the world to me ...I am here looking to find a good man ,A kind man whos gentle loves romantic nights ,who likes to do the same things i do , He has to be romantic not all the time but it is nice once in a while to be that way for sure.There comes a time in ones life when you say its time to live for ourselfs to which i have rasied my kids and now its my time ,But the kids still need me once in a while lolol,So here i am on a dating site to where id never thought i would be but its worth a try isnt it cause one never knows ...Were always looking for someone to live with but im here to find the one man i cannot live without..My name is Brenda.....thank you for reading and stopping by.......So yes my pics may be a little sexy once in awhile but whats wrong with a women wanting to feel sexy and look sexy at 49 still if im wrong so be it but i like to feel good and feel like im a sexy gramma lolololol...
As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back.

Don't be afraid that your life will end, be afraid that it will never begin!


Im no skinny model like i say im to be 49 in sept i do have meat on my bones i like to eat lolol so i wont order a salad at dinner i will order the steak lolololololol,,,I could loose a few pounds but i am who i am take me or leave me no worries lololololol..i wont be offened i like being meeeeeeeeeeeee lolol

For myself i would rather go for a drink of some kind on the first meeting ...why bother sitting threw a dinner or movie and wish you were back home watching your own tv lol so a drink for me is good that way u no there and then if u care to have a second meeting am i right.....