Hi -- hopefully this will work, I've been through a few dating services and there are too many looking but no one willing to try. And they can be expensive, if you're not careful! I've been described as blunt and sweet, in the same breath. You may not notice much when I start with you, but once we get comfortable, you might just laugh uncontrollably at my crazy sense of humor! I try to keep it clean but still fun. On the exterior, I may seem carefree with a boyish charm; sometimes surly. But when you need me to prop you up when it's needed, you'll find it. I like intelligent profound (and sometimes disturbing -- in a smart way) conversations. Also, some kind of activity -- be it hiking, running, dancing, or just hanging out to go see a movie. Otherwise, just having someone to spend time with on weekends, doing everyday things, is good, too!

*Other notes: How you treat people around you is a reflection of your personality. If you're patient and considerate (even kindness would be great) to everyone, from the food server to the service guy on the phone, then you are my woman. But if you are mean-spirited and are the type to treat others like crap, you are most likely not for me.*

*So what's with the whole: must not have messaged other users for intimate relationship or sex?? What if I've been alone and sexless for too long?? (4 months? 2 years?? 10 years?? You tell me!!) This is the stupidest restriction I've ever seen. I don't go around trolling around for sex partners. If I really wanted to, I'd go to craigslist!! Or a f&8!ing singles bar. I'm not a f*&!ing perv who tries to sleep with girls on the first date and neither do I think sex is everything, but I've got needs too!! Anyone who says otherwise (male or female) is just plain lying.*

So that is me... if I pique your interest and you fancy some more then drop me a line and let's chat. Have a great day. (Don't let the door hit you on the way out)

"It's up to you."