I just chopped off a foot of hair, literally. I'm a lifetime learner. I'm currently a student at Webster University. I love to experience life. I'm looking for someone who is willing to kindle a friendship first, then a romance. Single or divorced men only, no married or separated men.If you are looking for sex on the first date, it's not going to happen. On the other hand, if you are hung up and never want to have sex, or believe it's wrong don't contact me. I think lovemaking is a wonderful, healthy part of a relationship, best expressed by two people who like each other and want to share a spiritual experience as well as a physical one. I lean toward the left in politics(OK, I'm a true bleeding heart). I believe life is a spiritual experience, but life is meant to be lived and enjoyed. I am a pantheist who believes in the truth in all religions, I believe in the karma not the dogma. I am a spiritual being on a human journey and I believe in living that human journey.I love to laugh. I like reading Christopher Moore. I love going to hot springs. I like chanting to Krishna Dass. I like to spend an evening drinking wine or good beer. I like dancing, eating ethnic foods(I am a vegetarian, but I think ice cream and coffee deserve their own blocks on the food pyramid), theatre, concerts, movies(dramas, comedies, foreign, even some vampire movies). I love to be in nature.I like to be active, but I'm not an atlete. If you're looking for a skinny supermodel, keep looking. I'm not a tall skinny blond, but a short, dark, curvy, latina who is happy with her extra padding. When I'm with someone I like to give them my full attention. I love great conversation.I like to listen, but expect the same. I will respect your alone time and ask that you respect mine.It makes the time together much better. I don't do well with possesive people who have to talk every minute, but I don't like to be ignored for weeks either. I have a life I enjoy and friends I don't get to spend enough time with. I'm not usually jealous if I trust you and I expect the same. Mutual respect is important.

surprise me.