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Do you want children? Undecided/Open
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About Me
I'm a chef, which can kind of help describe me the best. I like to be the best I can in the kitchen. I like to try new ingredients, cook new things, and I enjoy seeing people pleased when they eat something I've made. This reflects my personality. I like to meet new people, to see new places and explore new cultures. I enjoy seeing those around me happy, and I'm never above helping a friend in need. I'm an honest and open person. I was raised to respect women, and I tend to put in a concerted effort to make sure the woman who chooses to be with me knows she's apreciated.
To give you more of an idea, I learned alot from my grandfather. He always told me that the actions I choose in life don't just reflect upon me but upon my family. How I treat a woman is also a reflection upon my family. So, I've learned that when I treat someone poorly, when I treat a woman poorly or with disrespect it's not just a reflection on me or a sign that I lack charachter. It's also a reflection upon my family and those who came before me. So as a result I make it a point to put forth an active effort to do what I think would make my grandfather proud.
I live my life by a quote from a little man, with an exceptionally large stature.
Mohandes K "Mahatma" Gandhi once said "Be the change you wish to see in the world"
What I get from this, is if you want the world to be a better place, don't wait for others to do the right thing, do the right thing and hope others will see it as an example.
First Date
For a first date, I'd probably want to cook something. I don't have much of an ego, but I know I'm a good cook. So since it comes easy, I'd cook dinner, candle light or not, would depend on the person. Afterwards, maybe something a little more intimate, going for a ride, or a little spot off to the side. Something that would allow us to talk and get to know one another, let you find out who I am, and let me find out who you are. It might sound cheesy, but when I'm with a woman, I try to do the things that put a little sparkle in her eye. It's all about her.
Chef Ben has 2 roses that can be sent.
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